(Closed) STD question

posted 10 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

I don’t see why not. STD’s are usually more for out of town guests benefit anyway, so they can plan ahead, save and such.

I think that just the formal invite for the co-workers is totally fine! In fact I think it’s a really good idea and I wish I would have thought of it for a few people that did get STD’s from me (ooohhhh, ‘get STD’s from me’ sounds BAD! LOL)

Post # 4
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2293 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

We are sending STDs, as our wedding is the weekend after 4th of July…  not only a traditionally busy, busy time for most people but it is also almost impossible to get a hotel room in our town all summer.  I think of the STDs though as mostly for people who need a hotel room, and people who we would be really, really disapointed if they weren’t able to be there. 

We have a few coworkers on our list to invite, and some that we are still talking about whether to invite.  I actually think I may not send STDs to the coworkers – for us mostly an issue, like you, that we would not expect them to come if we were no longer working with them for some reason.  I think the only firm rule is that you cannot send someone an STD and then fail to send them an invitation.

Post # 5
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385 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

I wouldn’t send them to them… I only sent mine to the people I knew would have to travel long distances or plan far in advance for schedules.

Post # 6
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245 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2008

we were just discussing this! i would say dont send them to your office mates.  we decided to NOT send one to our bosses (polite invites)… but did send one to 1 person in the office who is very close to my FI…   no other coworkers are invited. we told the 1 co-worker not to mention it around the office since she is the only one invited.

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