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    rchel234    Sept. 2009   Birmingham, AL

    did y'all match your save the dates and invitations?

     
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    Yes and no...the colors yes, the themes, no.  But a lot changed from when I designed the STDs to when I designed the invites!

     
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    argyle    September 2010  

    I plan on it.  I designed our entire suite of paper goods (invites, STDs, escort cards, menus, table numbers and programs).  I think it's really up to you.  We did so because it will help to set the tone for the entire wedding and carry our theme throughout.

     
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    Soon2BeMrsC    March 20, 2010   Wine Country

    This is a good question!  I am also interested to see what people say.  A friend of ours said he would design a motif we could use for the invites and stuff, but I have a feeling he is not going to deliver in time for STDs.  Plus, I saw some online that I really, really like.

     
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    LLauRRa    10/10/09   Dallas, TX

    I'm working on our STDs now. I think the only thing that will match will be the color scheme.

    Do what makes you happy. :) 

     
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    Miss Paris    June 19, 2010   Paris, France

    No.  We thought of Save the Dates as being more fun, less formal.  We wanted them to have a Paris theme (as they are only going out to the Americans - the French really wouldn't know what the heck a STD was), but Paris will not be the theme for the actual wedding...Also, we didn't want to give away our real theme and color scheme this early in advance.

     
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    ademarta    8/8/09   Rochester, NY -- Wedding in Stanley, Idaho

    Sort of  -- we are getting married in the mountains with a simple/country vibe. Our STDs were post cards (with one response as "yeehaw! we wouldn't miss the greatest mountain celebration of all time!"). We included a photo magnet of us during the proposal (in a canoe). I used VistaPrint and maybe spent $80 from start to finish for 150 STDS.

     I love our invites -  we did handmade, plantable paper booklets (incl. weekend itinerary, maps, and invite) and made them very rustic. Our response cards (again, vistaprint postcards) had a mountain background. We used a non-profit from Chicago (awesome and inexpensive!) called WomanCraft (womancraft.net). There's some photos on our blog: kenandanna.blogspot.com. This was a little more spendy -- close to $350 with postage. 

     I guess they didn't "match" but the theme was consistent.  

     
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    Gerbera    August 7, 2010   NY

    Nope! I agree w/Miss Paris; we thought of the SaveTheDates as more fun. It allowed the FI & I more creative freedom. And the FI offered to do the SaveTheDates and I must say he is coming up with some nifty unique ideas!

    Our invitations and all other paper goods will follow the same design that I came up with though.

     
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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    Nope! We are looking at the STD's from Felix Doolitle (www.felixdoolittle.com) but we are thinking of having very formal, traditional invitations.

    hehe, nothing in our wedding is going to be too matchy matchy!

     
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    IA_Snowflake    August 29, 2009   Missouri Valley, IA

    Nope.  I wanted something that would "stick" in people's minds so I designed STD magnets through MagnetStreet.com.  When it came to the invitations (which I just got from FedEx - yes!), we had changed a lot about out theme, etc., so they're different.

     
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    dec09bride    12/05/2009   Texas

    Our STDs are Christmas themed, to hopefully help people remember that the wedding is in December. The invitations are not Christmas-themed, but in the same colors as the STDs.

     
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    Grnmel    6/27/09   Ann Arbor

    Our STD's were really fun and casual, and the invites a bit more formal, but in the same vein, colors, and theme.

     

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    FutureMrsChoi    10/17/09   DC & Houston

    Ours matched in terms of color scheme but not in design.
    Our save the dates were more fun and casual but our invitations will be more formal..
    I think either way is fine, whatever floats your boat!
    Good luck!

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    Yes, our STDs and Invitations do match. They are the Falling Petals theme from WeddingPaperDivas.com. I tried to make it easy for myself and luckily I found the ones I wanted.

     
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    bearcub    September 2009   Portland / La Serena, Chile

    I don't plan on matching our STDs and invites.  The save the dates are going to be way more informal; just a photo we're sending to our loved ones :)

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    missomally    July 11, 2009   Missouri

    No, ours did not match.  They both had a rustic nature-inspired mountain wedding theme, but were nothing alike.

     @ ademarta - would you mind posting pictures of your STDs and invites?  It sounds like we're having similar weddings and I'd love to see your paper.  Thanks!

     
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    charmedbride    august 2009   ca/wedding in mi

    They matched in color and kind of in vibe, but not theme. The STDs were considerably simpler and more modern? The invites still have a modern touch but is a little more charming, focus on details that showed personality.

    Personally, I found that over time I didn't really want everything to match perfectly. We're basically running with the same color scheme and feeling throughout everything from the STD to the escort cards and a very simple recurring balloon motif, but some things will be more vintage, some will be a touch modern, some will be elegant, but everything will coordinate and hopefully mesh together on the day of in a really personal sort of way.

     

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