(Closed) STDs and Invitations for Separated Couple

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would Invite her and “family” whatever that happens to be at the time of the wedding

Post # 5
9552 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Why don’t you just call her and ask what she would prefer?

Post # 6
2239 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’d call and ask her how she’d like her save the date and wedding invite addressed.  If you’re not wanting him to show up I’d def not put his name on it unless she wants you to.  She could end up feeling obligated to bring him and if they’re not really together that could be awkward. 

Post # 7
3375 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would invite your friend plus guest and let her decide.

This is crazy that she still brings her husband to social functions even though they’re separated. Normally separated people can’t stand each other.

Post # 8
272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I feel like an idiot for asking, but what is an STD? WHen I saw the post initially, I was expecting a really different situation …possibly involving Valtrex!

Post # 9
1132 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Pixie79:  Save the Date.

I would ask her. It sounds like you are closer to her and there’s no telling how she feels about him, despite appearances.

Post # 10
5428 posts
Bee Keeper

An abbreviation for – Save The Date (STD)

Post # 11
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would skip the STD for this couple. Let her know the date informally and then when you send out invitations and they do not live together you oculd invite her plus a guest. 

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