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    peasantsong    September 25, 2011   Northern Calif.

    Have you September 2011 brides started planning on when you're sending out STD's?  I was thinking I would send them in January because it's after the new year and people have their new calendars.  But I'm getting married on a Tuesday, so maybe I should send them earlier than that?  What do you think?

     
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    nqz100    September 10, 2011  

    I ordered mine a few weeks ago and was thinking about sending them right about the same time as  you--after new years.  That's almost 9 months in advance and I think it should be plenty of time.

     
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    ceamoste    September 3, 2011  

    WOW! I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking of January... I personally thought it was early, but for the same reasons, new calendar, new year, etc, it seemed to be the best choice.

     

    We're getting married on a holiday weekend, which is why I went for 9 months out instead of 6-8, but I figured that it'll give them a break in their 'winter blues' that we get up here in Canada.

     
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    MsPensFan    September 10, 2011   Pittsburgh, PA

    I can't decide if I want to send out STDs.. We have a very long engagement, over 2 years.. So everyone close to us knows we're getting married on 9-10-11. I'm thinking maybe I should send them though so people take it more serious that is it actually going to happen! 

     
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    LeahP    September 10, 2011   San Diego, CA/Vermont

    We are planning on sending ours out on September 10, 2010, which is exactly 1 year til the wedding.  I know it's really early, but we are having a destination wedding across the country, and we would like to give people as much time as possible to make travel arrangements, save money, etc.  But, I do think January is a really good time to send them out. 

     
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    Entangled    September 17, 2011   Carmel, CA

    We're planning on sending them in the fall for a 9/17/11 wedding.  My fiance wants to do them ASAP, by a year in advance but we haven't ordered or gotten addresses or anything, so it'll probably be October/November which is still WAY ahead of time.

    Since most of our guests are travelling cross-country to come (some have already requested week-plus vacations from work!), we figure the more time the better.

     
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    Tiffany2011    September 24, 2011  

    Getting married on 9/24/11 and save the dates are ordered and were waiting for them to arrive. We live in FL and 95% of our guests are from out of state and some from the caribbean. We want to send them out 1 year in advance because wer want everyone possible to attend. Were also spreading the date around my word of mouth.

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    I sent mine out 9 months before my wedding. I think I did it the first week of January. We, too, were having a wedding across the country from most people, so that gave plenty of time to save, make plans, etc. 4 weeks to go for me! Good luck, ladies!

     
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    weddingdiva-in-training    September 9, 2011   GA

    I'm planning to send mine out in March 2011 BUT I'm launching our website in November so people will already know the date and will be able to plan ahead.

     
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    cr6zy    September 10, 2011   phoenix

    i launched my website and sent it to major relative (moms and grandmas) and we are sending our save the dates on our anniversary in february

     
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    Miss Holly    September 24, 2011   Hudson Valley and NYC

    I think we're doing January as well.  It seems like a good time for people to put the date on their calendars.

     
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    eseds    September 4, 2011   Long Island, NY

    January sounds like the best idea because of hte new calendars... probably SHOULD do them earlier since most of our family will be traveling but I dont care

     
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    Stephanie85    September 17, 2011   Las Vegas (wedding in MO)

    I was also thinking about sending them out in Jan. Most of our guest are going to be out of towners. I am still trying to decide if i want to make them myself or order them.

     
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    ejs1228    September 1, 2011   Denver

    We notified our families via email and phone about the specific date (Thursday Sept 1). I also launched our wedding website/blog in August 2010. Family and most friends will have known the date for a year.

    We are sending the formal STD's after Valentine's Day (6 months out).

    Invitations will hit the mail 8 weeks prior to the date and

    I'm asking them to RSVP by 5 weeks prior.

    I just made up this schedule tonight so someone tell me if I'm walking into a bad planning process!!!!

     
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    Miss Marine    September 3, 2011   Redlands, CA

    We sent out our save the dates at the beginning of October. My fiance's entire family lives in another state and I wanted to give them as much time as possible to save and plan for the trip!

     
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    SandraCarol    September 3, 2011  

    @Miss Marine: We are date twins! :)

     

    We are sending our save the dates out in January. I feel behind! We did not want them to mix in with all of the holiday mail. I have been sharing the date with out of state family hoping they have plenty of time to make travel arrangements.  

     
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    7SEVENJ9    September 25, 2010  

    I was a 9/2010 bride, and sent the STD's in January!

     
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    KayMeiBee    September 10, 2011   Chicago, IL

    We were planning on sending them in November, but due to a mail mishap, we've put it off until January.  I think that it'll still be plenty of time for our friends and family to coordinate their schedule. 

     

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