Post # 1
Just wondering how many of you have told your SO about Weddingbee? I stumbled upon the hive last week and have become a little obsessed but haven’t mentioned it to my SO, mostly because I am trying to not bring anything wedding/engagement related up because I tend to be a little pushy (oops!) I’m having a bit of a hard time though because there have been some funny or cute things that I would love to share with him and I feel a little guilty hiding the screen on my iPad when he wanders by. Hope he doesn’t start to think I am up to no good!
Just curious what the ratio of open to ninja stealth users there are!
Post # 3
I don’t openly let my SO know that I go on the site, although he’s nosy so he’ll sometimes peek over when I’m trying to face my screen away from him and then I get all blushy like.
Although when the time comes, he does know how to find all of my ring porn. He knows a lot about computer security, and can usually find remnants of my ogling even if I delete my history.
Post # 4
You need a “Yes, but I use it alone” type option because yes, my SO knows about Weddingbee and the fact that I post on it, but he doesn’t look at it or give it another thought really. I think he’s relieved I’ve found another outlet for my wedding talk 😛
Post # 6
I was literally going to post something like this because i was wondering if you ladies were hiding it as well lol I told my BF about this site, just as a passing comment and he just laughed and shook his head. I DID NOT tell him that I registered lolol. We’ll see what happens!
Post # 7
When he found out about the site we had a “discussion” that lead to me getting my timeline so i am happy he found out. I knows what the page layour looks like (The green and red, with white on the top) so if he sees me on my Kindle he knows what I am up to. He knows ppl post their engagement stories and vent on the boards. But I try to keep it on the down-low. And if he catches me on it, I wont speak on anything engagement/wedding/Marraige related at all that night.
But yes, I try to get ninja with it.
Post # 8
@Sapphire-Dreamer: Hahah my SO recognises the “green” site too!
Post # 9
@caffeiney: Thanks, I knew there was something missing but couldn’t put my finger on it!
@buzzyplush: I know the blushy busted feeling all too well! I got caught on the wedding board on pinterest the other day and he said “I see what you are looking at!” and I was all DOH and tried to hide it. He just laughs and thinks it is cute but I don’t want it to seem like a subtle form of pushing to him if that makes sense.
@ReganLove: & @Sapphire-Dreamer: Yay, we can be ninja’s together! I think once our anniversary goes by on Sunday and there isn’t a proposal and I can relax and be more mellow about the whole thing I will probably clue him in about this site. I find the weeks leading up to big dates too emotionally charged for me to have a light hearted convo with him about this subject!
Post # 10
He asked what I was looking at and I caved and told him. I was terrified that I’d freak him out, but he just shrugged and went about his day. haha
Post # 11
He doesn’t know about the waiting section, and that it’s my go to page, but he does know there is a forum about weddings that I’ve looked at.
Post # 12
He’s aware that I look at some website about weddings, but I’ve been super stealth covert operations lately so he thinks I’m not thinking about it. I have literally moved my laptop to a less visible position when I get on here. I don’t mean to deceive per se, I just want him to feel comfortable and not like I’m hinting at him or pushing.
Post # 13
I kept it from my SO for a while, but since I’m on here so frequently I talk about it a lot. Now he even knows my username. It’s not a big deal to him, but I was definitely embarassed about it at first!
Post # 14
I tell SO about silly shit that I see on the ‘Bee.
Post # 15
SO doesn’t know about the Waiting section (that I’m aware of) but he knows I come on here. He knows it’s about all kinds of things, and not just weddings, and he seems fine with it.
Post # 16
@pharmy: Hahahahaha YES! This!! 🙂