(Closed) step-cousin driving everyone nuts with her wedding,

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Have you considered calling her out on her selfishness? She sounds completely outrageous!

Post # 4
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2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I agree with Jenniferk6. She needs to be notified immeditately that her behavior is not okay.

Post # 5
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I mean honestly if she is worried about losing attention to a flower girl… she clearly has no perspective on anything

Post # 5
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

double post

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Call her out! I would just tell it like it is. I would say “Listen, you are being a selfish bitch. Your step mother is DYING and you are worried about the FG’s wearing white!? Have you lost your mind? What makes you think that your step mother wants to cook for 100 people when she is DYING!? What makes you think that the bridesmaids are worried about dresses when their mother is DYING!? Have you stopped to think about things? Now, let’s go get some shoes…”

🙂

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Miss Tattoo: *LOVE*  (There are FEW posts by you I don’t love, lol)

@bells: Agreed!

 

@Pinksapphire:  Is it possible this is her way of dealing, or rather NOT dealing, with her step-mother dying?  (I did get that right, right?)  Some people just can’t handle a loved one being so sick and on the verge of death.  (I avoided my grandmother on her last days and used my son as an excuse…he was an infant and couldn’t see her due to a virus she had that’s common to people in nursing homes.)

Call her out on it, ask her what the hell is up?  ASK if this is her way of dealing with it, because if so, it’s shitty and she needs to find a new outlet.  Maybe a grief counciler or something.    

Good luck and sooooo sorry about your aunt and your step-cousin 🙁

Post # 9
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7430 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Word for word I’d email her what Miss Tattoo posted. Or tell her to her face. Either way she’ll get the point once and for all.

Post # 12
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2701 posts
Sugar bee

I can’t believe someone would be so selfish at a time when their family is really struggling and needs love and support. I agree, you should call her out on her behavior before a relationship is severely damaged.

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