- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
First let me say that I think I know what my decision will be, but I wanted some feedback from the Mighty Bees!
My love and I are getting married next summer in my hometown. My Fiance like most hasn’t really been to involved with the planning, which I expected. I have already chosen my bridesmaids. It started off at 6 then it jumped to 8 and now we’re at TEN!! I was VERY uncomfortable with that large of a wedding party, but soon took on the “it is what it is” attitude.I look at it as a blessing really. A few days a ago my honey says that he wants his cousin and good friend from H.S. to be in our wedding. This would push our numbers up to 12 a piece, which I think is absolutly obnoxious. He hasn’t really come out and said that he wanted anything. He’s pretty much said, what ever you want is fine with me. So at first I was really going to figure out a way to make it work….BUT THEN.
His good friend from H.S. got married in the summer of 2010. I was not invited and was told by my Fiance, my then Boyfriend or Best Friend that she didn’t want me to come. Why you ask? Bc one of her bridesmaids was my Fiance ex-girlfriend and she felt that it was cause drama if I showed up.
So my Fiance wants to not only invite her, which I really could care less about, BUT HAVE HER STAND FOR ME AS A BRIDESAMID? Like I said, I’ve made my decision, but I can’t wait to hear what the Bees think. Am I missing something? Am I loosing it?