(Closed) Sticky situation with an engaged man. Tell the fiance?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should my friend tell his fiance?
    Yes. : (441 votes)
    84 %
    No. : (42 votes)
    8 %
    She should tell him to tell her (even though he may not) and leave it that. : (41 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    @bunnyharriet:  I would, be prepared for the FI not to believe you but he’s a dog and she should know.

    Post # 4
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    864 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I’d stay out of it. His FI might be appreciative of the information or she might run her over with her car. You never really know what your going to get. 

    Post # 5
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think it would be pretty hard not to believe her when she has pictures of his penis.

    Post # 7
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    360 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I would bust the guy out in a really creative way that leaves him scared shitless. But I wouldn’t say anything to the girl, because like others have said you never know what will happen and your friend could end up in an even worse situation. 

     

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing bee

    I’d want to know if I was in danger of getting an STI

    Post # 9
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    609 posts
    Busy bee

    As far as I’m concerned, you don’t know this girl so you have nothing to benefit or lose from not telling her.

    You have no clue if she already knows of prior indiscretions or if she already knows he cheats but chooses to accept it.

    I think you should just let it all go and not get involved in someone else’s life.

    Post # 10
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @bunnyharriet:  Gosh I’m evil…. Yes she should meet him on Friday and also have his FI show up too… Plan one shocking meeting….. But that’s me thinking evil Surprised

    I always try to put myself in the other persons shoes. I would want to know as bad as it would hurt I would still want to know so I think she should tell especially with a wedding coming up. 

    Post # 11
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I would absolutely tell her. Facebook message and in case she doesn’t see it (because it goes to that “others” inbox) something creative like sending somethingcheap off their registry under her name with a note or something

     

    this girl deserves to know. your friend literally has the chance to not let her ruin her life.

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    @bunnyharriet:  Some women like to stick their heads in the sand tho, even with all the evidence!

    Post # 14
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    3200 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @Chrysoberyl:  +1. i posted this on a similar thread – i would want to know for the sanctity of my own body. if my man were sleeping around (god forbid!) i would want to know IMMEDIATELY that his D has been in other V’s. just sayin.

    if she doesnt believe her, she can always tell her to come with her to meet up with him on Friday. busted…

    Post # 15
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @weddingbound:  haha i didnt even see your comment. great minds think alike

    Post # 16
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    4480 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    In the FI’s situation, I would want someone to tell me, and I’d want them to provide me with evidence.  Even if the FI doesn’t believe it, at least she won’t have entered this marriage blindly.

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