- 5 years ago
Happy Monday Bees!!
It’s slow here at the office so I thought I lurk on the bee and give an update on my situation…a couple weeks ago I had posted that I’m done waiting (and I meant that). After thinking about it, talking to close friends, and reading a bit on the bee…I decided to have a “come to Jesus talk with my SO,” before just walking out on the relationship. I felt like I owed it to myself and my son to give the relationship one last shot. During our talk, I explained to my SO, how I was beginning to feel resentment toward him and that I was bitter and angry that the relationship was just standing still. He seemed to understand what I was saying and that he said that he could sense that I was unhappy. We’ve agreed to try and work through our issues and see what happens. For myself, I’m still done waiting as I feel like it makes the relationship harder than it needs to be. I’ve decided that I’m going to focus more on myself being happy and being a fabulous mother than on waiting.