(Closed) Still don't have a wedding date…vent

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Maybe he is just comfortable with how things are now since you moved  90 miles to be with him and he doesnt see the need to do anything.  You just need to have an honest talk with him about it

Post # 5
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3472 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

You need to tell him that. 

Just like you are understanding that getting married in the church is important to him, he needs to understand that getting married in a timely fashion is important to you.  Just be honest with him and tell him how you’re feeling– that will be a better motivator than buying stuff for the wedding. 

Post # 6
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998 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Face:  Have you spoken with him and been COMPLETELY honest like you have been here?  Sometimes it takes me being brutally honest before my fiance realizes how hurtful his actions (or in your case lack there of) are. Dont sugarcoat it or he will never realize how much this is affecting you.  I also like to give deadlines. 

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