Still in love with my EX, but he has a GF

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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6515 posts
Bee Keeper

So this guy has a GF and a baby and is telling you that he still loves you? 

Not healthy.

Move on.

Post # 4
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223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think too much has happened already and it’ll be a mess. You deserve to start off fresh with someone else who doesn’t have “baggage” a gf and a baby. You guys broke up for a reason and he immediately got some one else pregnant and now there’s a chance he’ll jump into another relationship back with you. You deserve to be with someone who will just focus on you and not have other drama to worry about. Sorry hun 🙁

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

People can love each other and be the right person but the wrong time. He has a pretty permenant situation and it may never ” run it’s course”. So I guess the question is can you put your life on hold for something that may never happen?

 

TheGridMonster:  I do agree with you this isn’t fair to the mother of the child, if you truely love someone else move on

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Do you actually want to be with a guy who has a family and is telling another woman he loves her? 

He’s ‘stuck’ in this situation because he had a baby. How irresponsible and reckless of him. Move on, this is unhealthy.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

MrsVMT:  it can be hard. I am not sure why you’re holding on to him. But as long as you hold on to this love that might not be worth it, sorry to say, but you’ll never let yourself move on and you might miss meeting someone who can be someone Worth it. Can I ask why do you still miss him and in love with him?  

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

 

MrsVMT:   I would leave it be, date do your own thing. If for some reason something does happen on it’s own and after a period of time if you are both single I would maybe consider revisiting the situation.

BUT and this is a big but I would not get involved or help along a break up.He obviously is trying to do the right thing and if they do break up he still needs to be in his childs life. He could have helped out this girl independent of a relationship when he found out she was pregnant, he chose to be with her you have to respect that.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

MrsVMT:  Tell him to call you if by some chance it doesnt work out and leave it at that.

dont be his friend, dont still talk to him, not even Facebook friends. He needs to concentrate on himand HIS FAMILY without you in the picture. If he really doesn’t love her, then let it fade on its own time and then see where you guys are (you may meet someone else?) or he needs to be a man and let this girl know. 

Do you really want to be the reason that poor little childs family splits up? You can look at it anyway you want and justify it however you want, at the end of the day you will be apart of the familys demise by being around. So just let him go. 

Maybe he will come around, maybe he wont but you cant sit around and wait.

Post # 13
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314 posts
Helper bee

you will never be more important than his child and he doesn’t love you enough to be a single father so he can share his life with you– keep repeating this to yourself and let him go

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Just wondering – how did you wind up on weddingbee? You might want to find some less relationship-based sites. I know it would drive me crazy if I were pining for someone.

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