(Closed) Still sad about sisters and wedding…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I’d ask your mom what she wants you to do about it? I mean… why does she keep telling you? Does she want you to act less happy than you are? Please. It sounds like your sisters did the best they could for you, if they were acting happy for you on your wedding day and you said they haven’t really been acing badly towards you at all. I don’t think you can expect everyone to just automatically be happy because you are, but I think its fine to wish things were different. It sounds to me like they’re unhappy but do their best to be supportive. You wish things were different but you’re not crossing a line into scolding them for being unhappy. Really the only thing that needs to change is that your mom needs to lay off the guilt trip she has you on for finding someone. 

Post # 3
4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i’m so sorry your sisters were going through rough patches and couldn’t be there for you at your wedding in the way you might have hoped!

it’s sounds like your mom is the only one who won’t let this go. why does she keep bringing it up? tell her you’re sorry that they are jealous, but you don’t want to hear about it anymore because it’s not productive.

Post # 4
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m also terribly sorry that your sisters had a rough time with your wedding, and it’s understandable. You took it in stride and you are a little sad about it, but unfortunately, life happens and gets in the way of happy moments. Your mom needs to stop reminding you about it and making you feel guilty. You had a fantastic day and it’s unfortunate that they both broke up with their boyfriends around your wedding, but there isn’t a whole lot you can do about it.

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