(Closed) Still so depressed over broken engagement

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m so sorry for your hurting—it’s normal to go through various emotions at different times…I pray for hope and healing and new direction

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m so sad for you and feel bad you’re going through this 🙁 A loss of a relationship is like a death; we grieve in the same way. I can definitely understand how your cousin’s wedding wld make you sad.

Have you thought about reading up on relationship loss and breaking up? There are some great books talking about grieving the loss of a relationship, the 5 stages of grieving, and how to begin to move on and maybe it would help give you some coping strategies of how to approach high pressure situations (like this wedding) and how to start to recover piece by piece.

Maybe also try and involve yourself with lots of people, maybe new people in a new hobby or something. Also try to keep hold of the fact: if it was meant to be, it will be. If you were meant to be with your ex-FI, then you will again; if not, you WILL meet your new Mr. Right. This time wasn’t your time, but your time WILL come and it will be the right time. You will recover one day and eventually be thankful for all your experiences, even though they’re shitty and depressing at the time. *BIG HUGS*

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