Still Upset at Flower Vendor a Month Later – Should I Reach Out to Her?

posted 2 years ago in Flowers
Post # 2
602 posts
Busy bee

So you want to complain that your guests didn’t get to take home all of your used flowers? I can see how it would bother you since she said that someone would wrap them (ftr, that concept is totally foreign to me but I didn’t rent vases) but I personally wouldn’t complain about it. Your wedding was over a month ago. Nothing is going to come of it but her probably snarking on you behind your back. It would be one thing if you didn’t know this girl but I have to assume that she’s probably friends with people that know you. Unprofessional, sure, but if I had a client complain about something that really had no influence on the wedding itself, it would be a total eye roll and I’d for sure talk about you. 

If seeing her pictures on social media bother you, unfriend her. Problem solved. 

Post # 4
42135 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

waitinginSF:  I think it’s always appropriate to give polite feedback to a vendor.

Post # 5
1319 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

yes i would contact her. 

Post # 6
185 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Brussels, Belgium

I’d probably leave a negative Yelp review if she has a page, but that might be harsher than a letter.

Post # 7
2455 posts
Buzzing bee

As long as you can do it in a constructive and civil manner I don’t see why you shouldn’t let her know you were disappointed.

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