Post # 1
We’ve had the ring for almost a month now. Every darn weekend I become disappointed when he makes plans for us with friends, cause then I know the proposal just ain’t happening.
I thought maybe he changed his mind.
Last night I came right out and asked him if he did. What he told me was that he wants to do something special, and doesn’t have the money for it. I just started working again after six months, I KNOW he doesn’t have the money to pay for us to go away or plan a big fancy dinner. So, what I said to him was…”I dont’ need a hot air balloon babe.”.
Jeez. Just friggin ask me!!!! All I ever wanted is to take a ride on the bike somewhere in the country and have him propose!!! Cost: 10 bucks in gas.
So, we are completely booked this weekend. Next weekend is my birthday, and I dont’ expect it then either as he’s told me he would never ever do that.
I just want to start the rest of my life as a combined and committed unit!!! Ug.
Post # 3
Look at it this way, at least he has the ring!! So frustrating. But he wants to make it special, so try to not say anything so he can plan his move.
Post # 4
Oh boy, I get that you are anxious to get this show on the road, any girl would be, but this just ain’t your rodeo honey. Trust him enough to know when the time is right for both of you, meanwhile…forget about that ring, what it means and that it isn’t on your finger and start enjoying life, your SO and all the fun things you do together. Your missing your own life and for what, a ring? I know the signifigance of that tiny thing belies it’s size, but don’t let it make you crazy! Just have some fun, he’ll be on one knee in no time!
Post # 5
I had a similar talk! I was like, it can be just after dinner, nothing fancy, nothing big! I’m not that sort of girl anyway! And he’s like, no, I have plans, ok, maybe I want to do something big… UGH. They mean well….
Post # 6
I agree, don’t stress about it, he may get angry as well and hold off more til you cool down. not a great start
Post # 7
Hugs, it is coming soon… He is just trying to make it special for you.
Post # 8
you’re so close! it will be worth the wait – i promise!