Post # 1
Okay please help me calm down! I am getting so impatient and constantly wondering when it will be coming. I found a receipt by accident in my SO ‘s car in February. That was 5 months ago!! and it was dated from January. I have been freaking out at every little thing he does trying to figure out when it is coming. Why is it taking so long??? I cant take it any more. I was so sure it was happening on our beach vacation 2 weeks ago…but nothing!! and we have nothing planned anywhere in the future.. except our 4 year anniv is comming up in september…I just dont think I can wait any longer especially knowing he has a ring! How am I supposed to stay calm and be patient! <br /><br />
Post # 2
He probably has a precise date in his head (and way that he wants to do it). So be patient. enjoy this time and get ready for a really exciting time in your relationship.
Post # 3
This happened to me. My Fiance has the ring for over 5 months. But couldn’t figure out the best way to ask. So he waited. Finally I found the ring and me being me couldn’t hold it in. I told him. He told me how he was waiting until he found the perfect way to ask. I told him I didn’t care about that, and just to ask. He asked the next day.
Post # 4
Mine has had the ring for 3 weeks now. I am in the same boat as you. Try to be patient. My SO told me he has a plan and that the proposal is a once in a lifetime thing and he wants to do it his way. Keeping me patient is that he is already heartbroken I found out that he has the ring….I need to let him propose how and when he wants to. It just better be soon! lol
Post # 5
I dont think he knows that I know anything. Besides the fact that EVERYONE is asking us when we’re going to get married. . we havent really talked about it at all. It is very much assumed at some point.. when I ask about having the talk he says we will have it one day soon. I think he will propose before we ever actually talk about it. :/ He is kind of old fashoned in that since as well as completely not emotion or wanting to talk about all that mushy stuff.
I also have the idea that he probably doesnt actually have the ring yet that he is still making payments. He got it from a small local jeweler ..don’t some places make you pay off the ring before you get it? That is the only thing keeping me sane.. This waiting game is getting rediculous! lol
Post # 6
c4rr134nn: yrs we had gotten mine from a client if my fiancee who own a small jewelry store and he had to pay it all off first before he was able to take it home to propose to me with. So be patient I waited 6mths