(Closed) Still waiting on 3…

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
9955 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012


Your RSVP Date was 2 months ago?


Do you mean you sent out the Invites 2 Months ago. 

If the latter, what is your RSVP Date that you asked for ???

The norm is to start making AFTER the date has passed and a couple of days, so that if anyone mailed them on the last day, they at least have a bit of time for them to make their way thru the mail to you.

Hope this helps,


Post # 4
9073 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I give it a couple weeks after the RSVP date. I haven’t heard from 3 people on my list, but they’re all on my husband’s side so he’ll have to deal with them. A simple phonecall to ask for a head count is all it takes.

I’d say 1-2 weeks after the rsvp date is a good time to start chasing people.

Post # 6
739 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Aquaria:  If you asked him and his mom to call the guests who haven’t RSVP’d and they haven’t, then time to take matters into your own hands. Maybe remind Future Mother-In-Law once again, but if it’s been 2 weeks past the respose date, then get their phone numbers and call yourself. :/ sorry! But ya gotta do what ya gotta do. 

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