Post # 1
I was wondering if anyone else is planning to stop having sex prior to their wedding day to make it extra special? (Even though I know that MANY couples do not have sex on their wedding night from exhaustion).
My fiance and I have discussed it and I originally said we should stop 2 weeks before, but surprisingly, he suggested us stopping 1 month before our wedding day.
Post # 3
I personally don’t see the point of doing this on purpose, but we’ll probably be stopping the week prior since I’ll be on my period, haha.
Post # 3
I think its a lovely idea – we are planning on doing a month too
Post # 4
I suggested this, not because I was super interested in it, but because I was just throwing it out there. Fiance was appalled, lol. It’s probably not for us, though I do see the appeal in some ways. We’re taking the whole week of the wedding off from work and likely will be super exhausted so it’s probable that we won’t be having that much sex in the four or five days before the wedding. Plus, even if you don’t happen to stop, think of how much more special and how intimate and romantic it will be knowing you’re having sex with your *husband* for the first time. Chills!! For us, stopping prior won’t make it any more special. And we may have a few nights before the wedding having excited “we’re almost husband and wife” sex, which could also be nice and a little new and envigorating!
Post # 5
we will be stopping…how long before…not sure…but we will be stopping. The reason for us is both religious and jsut to have the actual excitement of doing it when we are finally man and wife.
Post # 6
Wait people don’t have sex on their wedding night. I think i’d be traumatized and think it like cursed our marriage.
I don’t plan on stopping… prolly just a week which we sometimes do anyway when we are exhausted during the week so its nothing new.
Post # 7
I don’t think we could stop even if we tried LOL
Post # 8
When we finally set the date, we’re going to stop having sex a year in advance. For me its just so I can have that honeymoon feeling. For him its religious.
I didnt even lose my virginity until 4 months ago (to him, of course) so I definitely know I can deal without it.
Post # 9
I don’t think we’ll stop, as it’s likely that we’ll be in a LDR until we’re married…and let’s be real…we miss each other WAY too much in between visits!!!!
Post # 10
I couldnt stop. If I go without sex I loose my drive and its hard to get back into it. Im not sure if we will have sex the night of the wedding either since I plan on being dead.
Post # 11
- Wedding: October 2012 - Watch tower lodge, Black hawk state Park Rock Island, IL
we sat down and discussed this and decided 2 weeks before, just so our wedding night is a little extra special 🙂
Post # 12
Yeah, no. We wouldn’t be able to hold out.
Post # 13
i think we will do 2 weeks
Post # 15
My Fiance and I have stopped for almost 2 years now for religious reasons.
Post # 16
Wait….you plan on being dead?