Post # 1
Bees, what do you think about this:
Would a straight man let another man go down on him?
Just curious to see what you all have to say.
ETA: I guess I should explain more. Me and my FI are really good friends with another couple who are married. My FI swears this guy is at least bisexual…if not gay, but I never thought so. He’s just always seemed metrosexual to me. Well, last weekend we were all out at a bar & he admitted he would let another guy go down on him, but he said he wouldn’t reciprocate. We all thought he was joking and he started to back track and say he was kidding…but I don’t know! I just wanted to see if this was normal, because my FI said no way would he ever consider another guy giving him a BJ, lol.
And also, it doesn’t matter to me at all if our friend is bisexual, we were just shocked he said that! Lol
Post # 3
Um, no, I don’t think so. Why is this in “emtional”?
Post # 5
I would think no. I mean, I’m straight and I wouldn’t want another woman down yonder lol
Post # 7
@BakerBee16: That’s not a straight guy. That’s a gay or bi guy.
Post # 8
@solidarity: Woops! I didn’t mean to post it under emotional.
Post # 12
- Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California
Maybe if you put a bag over his head [cut open a whole for the mouth, of course haha]. I’m a straight woman & I certainly don’t want another woman all up in there!
Post # 13
Well…this sort of assumes that to be considered “straight” you cannot have ever experimented with any activity with a same sex partner. I think that’s too strict a definition of heterosexual. I think it’s totally reasonable to experiment with members of the same sex, decide you prefer the opposite sex, then stick with that. Don’t lots of girls do this? I know tons of girls out there have experiences making out with their friends.
I also get the idea from your post that if the person is not “straight” then they are homosexual. That’s not necessarily the case. Lots of people (probably many more than care to admit it) are attracted to both sexes to some extent.
ETA: I see the update for the context of the situation. Maybe he’s a bi-curious or bi, maybe he’ll just take head from anyone who’ll give it, maybe he’s closeted. Hmm, interesting.
Post # 14
No chance. A man who receives oral from another man (or engages in any kind of sexual activity) is without a doubt gay.
Post # 15
Maybe. Nothing wrong with a little experimentation.
Post # 16
@cbgg: +1, I’ve hooked with girls in my past, but I don’t consider myself gay or even bi/curious. I think some people are just more experimental with their sexuality than others.