Post # 1
My SO & I have been discussing engagement for a few months now & looked at rings online . First he said not right now, but definitely in the near future and later he said that it wouldn’t be this year but some time next year after May…but then he keeps hinting that it may be sooner…anyway, a few days ago, he whispered to me that he wants to keep me forever. I was over the moon! But For the past 4 days, he’s been away with his guys friends on a little trip and hasn’t called much or texted me at all and I’m kind of worried. I asked him if everything was okay & he said it was but this isn’t like him at all…could he be planning something?? We are going on vacation to Hawaii in 3 weeks! Hopefully this is something good & not something bad…I’m just worried, anxious, & curious I guess…any thoughts, ladies?!
Post # 3
I think he’s not calling and texting much because he’s having guy time.
I can’t tell you when he will propose. Since he’s said next year, I would believe him.
Don’t get your hopes up too much for your Hawaii trip. It will end up ruining your time together.
Post # 4
@ArmyBeee: It’s ok, calm down, lol. If he’s away on a planned trip with some of his friends he’s innocently busy and there’s nothing for you to worry about. He’s probably just having fun with them and he’ll be in touch with you soon. My husband has an annual 3-day golf trip with his buddies, and when he’s busy having fun playing golf he can’t text or call me until he gets back to his room. 🙂
Post # 5
I agree, trust him when he says not now and really try to focus on now and enjoy what you have
Post # 6
It’s only been 4 days.
He has his own life, and the nice thing is that it doesn’t revolve around you – if it did, you wouldn’t have your own free time to go out and do things.
Relax! Enjoy yourself for a bit!
Life goes on whether you’re engaged or not, so you might as well enjoy it while you’re living it.
Post # 7
Enjoy your trip and believe him when he says a proposal is a year away. If you get your hopes up you will be disappointed and angry with him when he does exactly what he said he would and does not propose.
WRT the guys trip, he’s probably just having fun and not texting or calling because he’s busy.
Post # 8
My boyfriend goes on a week long trip every July with his guy friends. They go dirt bike riding. I hear from him maybe every other day. I’m sure your guy is just having a good time and too busy for texting constantly. I wouldn’t read too far into it one way or the other.
Post # 9
Gosh, ladies! You’re so right- heard from him today & he was having a blast with the guys & managed to pick me up a few goodies along the way! 😀 I was just freaking out for nothing- I don’t even know you guys but I’m glad you’re her to tell me common sense things that I can sometimes overlook 😉