Strange behavior…maybe I'm overreacting…maybe he's just busy…

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2355 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I think he’s not calling and texting much because he’s having guy time.

I can’t tell you when he will propose. Since he’s said next year, I would believe him.

Don’t get your hopes up too much for your Hawaii trip. It will end up ruining your time together.

Post # 4
9019 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@ArmyBeee:  It’s ok, calm down, lol.  If he’s away on a planned trip with some of his friends he’s innocently busy and there’s nothing for you to worry about.  He’s probably just having fun with them and he’ll be in touch with you soon.  My husband has an annual 3-day golf trip with his buddies, and when he’s busy having fun playing golf he can’t text or call me until he gets back to his room.  🙂  

Post # 5
4483 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I agree, trust him when he says not now and really try to focus on now and enjoy what you have

Post # 6
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It’s only been 4 days.
He has his own life, and the nice thing is that it doesn’t revolve around you – if it did, you wouldn’t have your own free time to go out and do things.

Relax! Enjoy yourself for a bit!
Life goes on whether you’re engaged or not, so you might as well enjoy it while you’re living it.

Post # 7
409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Enjoy your trip and believe him when he says a proposal is a year away. If you get your hopes up you will be disappointed and angry with him when he does exactly what he said he would and does not propose.

WRT the guys trip, he’s probably just having fun and not texting or calling because he’s busy.

Post # 8
366 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

My boyfriend goes on a week long trip every July with his guy friends. They go dirt bike riding. I hear from him maybe every other day. I’m sure your guy is just having a good time and too busy for texting constantly. I wouldn’t read too far into it one way or the other.

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