Strange situation happened in Jazz Class tonight..POLL

posted 1 month ago in Beehive
  • poll: What should I do?
    Go back to the class and prove the instructor wrong : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Dont take that class again : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Complain, tell the owner how the instructor treated me : (114 votes)
    95 %
    Other : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 2
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    9338 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Mls1988 :  lifelong dancer here, and that was outfuckingrageous of him. You need to report him.

    His job is to teach dance to people, not to humiliate people. He has an issue with the people who designed the class, it seems, but he never should have involved a student. 

    Post # 3
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    7888 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Same as I said last time: complain to the owner. The instructor was both unprofessional, and being an a-hole. 

    Post # 4
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    2633 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I also danced my entire childhood/teenage years, and teachers are supposed to encourage a love of dance, not humiliate students before they even get started. Those type of classes are designed to reach people who never got a chance to take lessons as a child. If he thought other students were being “held back” then he should have told them privately to consider joining a more advanced group rather than discourage and humiliate you. He’s a complete ass and needs to be reported to the owner. 

    Post # 5
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    2319 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015 - Ruby Princess

    Take him out. He’s a prick.

    Post # 6
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    1275 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2019

    He was being a complete douche canoe. I would definitely complain. 

    Post # 8
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    9338 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Mls1988 :  yes, the personality type is asshole.

    If you feel comfortable, I guess you could continue but how do you know he won’t keep singling you out? 

    Post # 9
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    452 posts
    Helper bee

    Complain to the owner and get a refund. He was completely out of line.

    Post # 10
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    1245 posts
    Bumble bee

    Mls1988 :  maybe the other ladies were afraid of being mortified as well? it’s intimidating when somebody singles you out.

    Have you looked up online reviews?  Does he have a reputation for douchery?

    Talk to the owner.  Who wants to pay for that?  

    Post # 12
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    594 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    That’s completely inappropriate and it sounds like there is a major communication breakdown from the dance instructor and the rest of the staff. Absolutely speak with the owner, this is way more than “dancer ego.”

    Post # 13
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    7888 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Mls1988 :  It doesn’t matter whether you sucked or not. The class was labelled “beginner” so he was totally out of line talking to you like that.

    Post # 14
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    425 posts
    Helper bee

    I didn’t even get to WHAT he said before voting for you to complain. Singling you out to the whole class would have been enough.

    But what he said was also ridiculously outrageous. What a twat. 

    He really really needs an attitude transplant. 

    It’s a beginner’s class, you are a beginner. His job is to teach you not be a condescending arsehole about ‘graciously allowing you to stay because you can probably pick it up’

    My blood is boiling for you!

    Post # 15
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    949 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Mls1988 : Definitely complain about him. The other ladies didn’t say anything because they’re probably used to taking abuse from him but it’s not ok. He wants to teach an intermediate class but he’s not, it’s a beginner class. He’s not doing his job and he’s blaming you for it.

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