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    misshappy      

    Hello all! I was just wondering what is the best way to not stress about your wedding? I noticed the closer I get to my wedding date the more I begin to stress. I really don't want to look back on my day and remember all the heartache and stress that occasionally came about. Any suggestions?

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    sassykm    July 18, 2009   La Mirada, CA

    I guess the best advice that I give myself is "If the wedding is not perfect, no one will know but me."

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    spraguebride    August 8, 2009   Bothell, WA

    I am having the same problem

    Right now I am not having fun and I REALLY want to turn things around. This time will pass and that's it.....I would hate to look back and realize that I didn't get to enjoy what should be such a happy time

     
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    Lexatron    September 6th, 2009   Missoula, MT

    I've been going through the same thing for the last few months, but I just always remind myself that we will have good food and music, as well as plenty of booze, combined with the knowledge that I get to marry my soulmate, and all of that makes for a perfect day in itself, regardless of how my centerpieces turn out.  :-D 

     
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    ashleyleah    September 12, 2009   Boston, MA

    I turned over control to my fiance - he's more laidback than me.  Now he deals with the planning and we're both a lot happier =)

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