Post # 1
- Wedding: September 2014 - Home Church
So I’ve been with my fiancé for 6 years and we’ve lived separately with our parents the whole time (low finances). Now we make enough money to get a place but it’s cheaper to continue living with our parents so we can pay for the wedding. Anyone else going crazy with this same situation? It’s so hard living separately planning this wedding but I don’t want to give up having a nice wedding.
And living with our moms ain’t easy either. He’s sleeping on the couch and I share a bed with my mom. Should we just move out? Or bitebthe bullet for 6 more months!
Post # 3
Hands down I’d say that you should put all your resources toward living together, do a a courthouse wedding if you want, but seriously you’re getting married. You’re two adults, living (and sleeping in the same bed) as your mothers is no way to start off a marriage. Look at the bigger picture in this case.
Post # 4
@BrideBunnieBaby914: I this case, given you don’t even have your own beds where you are now…definately move out and be together.
Post # 5
It really depends on your priorities. You said you wouldn’t want to sacrifice your wedding. However, if money were that tight I don’t think I would have had a nice wedding. Could you look into having a smaller ceremony and maybe a dinner?