(Closed) Stressed and not sure what to think anymore…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
8884 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I think it’s really crappy that you’re having people back out on you, especially with all this advance notice. $109 for a bridesmaid dress is totally reasonable and I’d be pissed if I were in your shoes. Maybe you can talk to the friend who wants to be one. Tell her you appreciate her friendship and her willingness to help and you’d love to include her in your bridal party.

You’re right about the “best man”, something isn’t right. I find it hard to believe that with a year’s notice he can’t get ONE day off. Not cool in my books.

Everything seems pretty crazy and stresssful right now. Maybe take a few days to sit back and relax, take a break from the situation.

Post # 4
1747 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think you should definitely make the non Bridesmaid or Best Man a Bridesmaid or Best Man. She seems really supportive, and that’s what you need right now.

Post # 6
581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

If your parents really do want to help and contribute is there anything that FI’s parents are doing that you really want? Maybe they can provide that? Special flowers, or a ceremony musician, signature cocktails, a reception dress, a honeymoon trousseau, etc?

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