(Closed) Stressed, Hurt, Overwhelmed, & all over the place!!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
1008 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

I totally undertand where you are coming from, I HATED wedding planning and I had to deal with 1/12 what you are.

My only advice is to focus on you husband. HE will be there. HE will think that you look beautiful no matter what size you are. when you are saying your vows… you will only be looking and worrying about him.

You wedding will end. Life will go back to normal, except for the fact you will be MARRIED!!!!!!! and you will think about this wedding 1/10000000 of how much you are right now.

Post # 5
Member
22 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Okay I know this is a bit late but now I’m having a down day.  I JUST told my fiance I hate that I’m trying to plan this wedding by myself with no one to enjoy it with me.  I too need to let go of my little girl dreams…I don’t care so much about the wedding right now as I do about how things have gone down since I got engaged.  First, my older sister was jealous (I hate saying that because I don’t know why anyone would be jealous of me, but that’s the only way to explain why she acts the way she does) and said hurtful things and was completely disinterested in helping me plan.  Now she’s engaged and planning her own wedding so she really wants nothing to do with mine.   Then my “best friend” who got divorced a few years ago said it’s too soon for her to talk about wedding stuff because of her failed marriage and now doesn’t even speak to me.  I have sympathy for her but at the same time, I wish she could be here for me like I was for her when she planned her wedding.  My other best friend is in the Air Force and I rarely get to talk to her anymore.  She also just got divorced so I try not to bring up the wedding stuff with her when we do talk, even though she has been the most excited for me out of everyone I know! I just feel like I have no one.  I have my fiance but his solution to my stress about wedding planning is to just go to the courthouse…and I really don’t want to do that.

Anyway! I didn’t mean to spill out all my problems, I just wanted you to know I can relate!!  Reading these weddingbee posts makes me feel better just knowing that I’m not the only one dealing with these issues!!  Sometimes I think there’s something wrong with me cuz I get depressed about the wedding and planning, but I guess a lot of us go through that!

I hope that things got a lot better for you!!!

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