Stressed out to breaking point

posted 3 years ago in October 2013
Post # 3
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225 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I had a complete meltdown the other day too. I had 2 family members pull out for medical reasons, which I completely understand, but it made me so sad because I was really excited about them being there. I also started to worry that the wedding is now too small and won’t feel like a party. Of course two people don’t really make the difference but I was just worrying about it anyway.

I also think I’ve gained weight recently, and I have for sure since getting engaged. I stopped weighing myself so I don’t even know for sure. A year ago I would have sworn that I would NEVER gain weight before my wedding. Now I think I’ll look fat. Oh well. 

I was really depressed and couldn’t stop crying for about a day, but yesterday, I started to feel better. I also saw pictures on FB of a friend of a friend’s wedding that happened last weekend and it made me excited again. 

Hang in there! The wedding is coming no matter what and it will be wonderful 🙂

Post # 4
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104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Oh geez! I guess I am not alone…my granny became sick this week (83) and I stayed with her, then my 12 year old puppy’s cancer came back, and then a family of 5 (mother, father, and 3 children) decided to rsvp (not even to me but told a member of the bridal party to let me know) so I kinda understand your frustration….and I feel very juvenile worrying about all this because I definitely know things can get worse…when I complained to my bridesmaids all they ever say is “oh it will be fine”! I literally may go crazy but realize you know what, your wedding day is about you so hang in there…don’t let anyone else be selfish and take that away from you!

Post # 5
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2319 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Lots of e-hugs and well wishes! I’m sorry about recent events (stress, family, guests dropping), but I hope that you have a smooth sailing and wonderful day 🙂

Post # 6
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6023 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@AnotherMrsBrown:  I’m sorry you’re having such a hard time.

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