- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
So, I was talking to FI last night, asking when he’d be getting paid exactly since yesterday he mentioned he’d probably get it next week… and asking approx how much it would be.
When I got home he informed me that he and his business partner decided to wait until Jan. 11. Why? Because that way they don’t need to do a T4 for this year. And that he’d only get around 500$.
I’m livid. I’m so livid. I’m pissed right the F off.
You would think, that this is something they would have thought over/planned BEFORE.
FI doesn’t get why I’m upset… his mom “offered to help”- contract in hand, of course (indicating interest if we take longer than x to pay them back) I told him NO, because I don’t want to feel pressure to pay them back within a set timeframe, especailly when I don’t know what his income is.
I mean we’ll manage it’ll be tight, but we’ll manage… but I’m so mad
My first cheque from my new second job will be $240 next week… my following one will be roughly the same because I have reduced hours over the holidays… and I just got my 1000$ from my main job, and will get approx another 1000$ on Jan 1.
I’m just SO MAD…I had talked to his partner before kind of candidly and asked him if he would have started the company the year that he and FSIL had their wedding. He said hell no. And I said, and you guys were both living at home at the time, right? He said ya.
So he wouldn’t have started the company the year of his wedding even though he was living at home… and had no real expenses.
So explain to me… WHY FI would .. the year of our wedding, WHILE WE HAVE A MORTGAGE TO PAY ALREADY
And not take a pay until January, because they are too lazy to do a T4? ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?! It’s easy for his partner to say that’s a good idea, because he still has a frigging day job AND LIVES WITH FMIL and FFIL… but I feel like nobody is thinking about my/our well being.
I want to cry, I don’t know what to do.
AND.. SORRY I don’t want FMIL money, because she claims not to have any, and she bitches ALL THE TIME about how stressed she is.. and oh they owe so and so money and so and so…. But also if they have money to give, THEY SHOULD HAVE SHELLED OUT FOR THEIR GODDAMN OPEN BAR
I’m so mad
I’m SO mad.
WHERE ARE THESE PEOPLE’s BRAINS?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?
AM I WRONG HERE?!!!??? OR was it a stupid idea to be so impatient with the company thing? FI should have worked another year to save before that, or wait for me to find a stable job. (MY CONTRACT IS UP IN JUNE!!!!!!)
Now THERE IS NO WAY I will be going back to school in the summer. Because he didn’t save. and all the savings I had, I had to give him to pay off his business phone/gas for his truck and other business expenses (lawyer fees etc) I’m so angry. I can’t believe how stupid and selfish he is being. AND IM MAD Because I made us reservations for our fave resto. Tonight because he was supposed to get paid next week and we’d have a bit of wiggle room, now I need to cancel and I ‘m so goddamn bitter I want to throw shit and cry.
WHAT THE HELL. Sorry this is so long, but AUUUUGH