Stressful MOH Vent

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
7888 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@destinationwdw:  Two things caught my eye: “may or may not have a job” and the “10 days of accomodation”. If I wasn’t sure I was going to have a job, I’d probably be hesitant about going for the whole 10 days. Perhaps she’d rather fly in and out and only stay 2 nights? Perhaps she’s waiting to closer to the date to make that decision?

And 11 weeks is still a long time. Only you know how reliable a person she is. But if my best friend told me she was going to be somewhere, I wouldn’t doubt her because she hadn’t booked 11 weeks ahead. I think this is a situation where all you can do is trust her to do it.

Post # 5
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

My question is more specific to the comment about fancy new items:

Are these for her newborn baby? New house?  These things could be out of necessity Undecided

Or are they splurges?

Post # 7
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

To be fair…a person can get a phone ‘upgrade’ with most companies without coming out of pocket.

Unless she got some sort of stellar deal on the treadmill/ipad…I do think you are justified.

Have you asked her if she is okay to get her plane ticket?  Perhaps a gentle reminder that tickets only get more expensive as every hour passes will help.

Hang in there!!  Not a pity party-you are paying for everything else…the LEAST she can do is reassure you that her transportation is in tact.

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