stretching sensation for first

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

 Tell him to be gentle and use lube. It will be uncomfortable but will get better. Take it slow and breathe!! Just be patient and enjoy your selfs. 

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Interesting first post. 

Your vagina is made to stretch. It won’t tear. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

If u try to shove an elephant through a pin hole then yes it will hurt. Foreplay will help stretch. stretching will not be permenAnt. Like I said take it slow.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee

 Your vagina doesn’t stretch, the hymen that is a layer that partially covers the opening to your vagina stretches. It does not need to tear if you’re gentle. A lot of women are told that their first time is painful and they’ll bleed but there is no reason for that to be true.

I’m glad your husband bought lube because the more you use and the slower you go the more comfortable it will feel, if it starts to feel too rough or ‘frictiony’ tell him to stop and put more on. It might sound like a bit of a mood killer but no ones first time is ever amazing, it’s about getting used to each other’s bodies.

It can take a few times to really heal and be prepared for more natural or quicker sex but as long as you don’t rush and be honest about what is comfortable or not it won’t take long.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

Please relax when you finally do it. If you tense up you mentally set the experience up for an uncomfortable failure. Drink a glass of wine or 2 if you need it

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