strip club outing?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
3735 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

hike_katahdin87:  I’d probably just go. Once you get there, you’ll see what it’s all about and find out that a lot of the dancers aren’t really anything too special, they just have a lot more chutzpah than most people.

Post # 3
291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Yeah, I’m not crazy about strip clubs, but in this case, I’d go. Thats so good he wants you to be there!

Post # 4
2661 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I would encourage my FI NOT to go.  He doesn’t like strip clubs, so that wouldn’t be a problem.  Who celebrates life by a weekend at a strip club.  Eew.  I am showing my age…..

Post # 5
2150 posts
Buzzing bee

hike_katahdin87:  You never know, your SO might be the kind of guy who really doesn’t like strip clubs (have you asked him?). i wouldn’t go, because I think they’re gross. But I wouldn’t care if FI wanted to go. 

FI went to a strip club for his bro’s bach party. He’s really not into strip clubs and thinks they’re gross, too (this was also his first time going). So  he just sat in the back with his uncle, shootin the shit and drinking. 

If your SO is anything like my FI, it could be a good opportunity for you to go, hang out with SO, and make fun of the reactions of all the guys getting lap dances- they’re so awkward to watch!

Post # 6
1030 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I would go, just to see what it was like. Also I think it would be the lesser evil, would hate to sit at home imagining what DH may be doing!

Post # 7
6158 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

strip clubs aren’t the big deals that people make them out to be.  i say go and have fun, or plan your own fun night with girlfriends to keep your mind off what your SO is doing.


Post # 9
3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I would go for sure. I’m always up for a new experience. I imagine it could be a really fun, bizarre night out. OR sort of gross, but fascinating? Who knows til you check it out!

Post # 10
2915 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Go! DH and I have been to strip clubs together a couple of times, and its fun. I really doubt you will be jealous of the strippers lol.

Post # 11
1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

hike_katahdin87:  I wouldn’t go. I just don’t feel comfortable. I’d tell everyone else to have a good time. I would talk with FI about my feelings and I have a feeling my FI wouldn’t go. We could do something else special for the friend you are celebrating. 

I realize this is a strip club with people of both genders, but I don’t feel comfortable because I see it as objectification and dehumanization of other people and I am just not comfortable with that. It’s very personal. 

Post # 13
4441 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

hike_katahdin87:  I would go, but I don’t have a problem with DH at a strip club, so I think YOU should not go, don’t (potentially) rain on cheated-death-guys parade!

Post # 14
918 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Just go and hang out with him. Lay down the ground rules before you even leave the house.

Post # 15
181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 1997

hike_katahdin87: Speaking from personal experience, I would go like some other Bee’s have said a Strip Club is not always what you think it is. When my husband and I were younger he went with his buddies to a Strip Club and I was furious. A few years later we were on a date night and he took me to one and it was so not what I imagined, lol…. The strippers were more intersted in talking to me and giving me dances and he was totally ok with it! Needless to say whenever we get a date night we might stop by one just for fun. So now I know that I am okay with my hubby going to a strip club on occasion and in the end it’s really up to you, but I say give it a shot and then you will know if it’s something that you are okay with. Lastly I’m not trying to stir the pot, but guys who say they don’t like or care for strip clubs, idk….. Men are men and they can’t help but like to look at a femalle who is taking her clothes off. Just saying.

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