As you’ve discovered… there are a lot of threads on WBee about Strip Clubs…
WHY we need another beyond me… especially when you don’t really require help on this issue as you and your Man have already determined the boundaries that work for YOUR RELATIONSHIP
(In truth everyone is entitled to figure out the boundaries that work for their OWN RELATIONSHIPS respectfully as well)
To answer the only real Question you’ve posed:
What the heck is the fixation with these clubs anyways ?
Well that would be man’s innate sexual appetite…
And the fact that they are hard wired to be Hunters.
Men are visual creatures… it is what PRIMES their sexual hunger
They are fascianted by the fact that EVERY WOMAN is somewhat different from the next…
Different Hair – Different Facial Features – Eye Colour – Skin – Shoulders – Arms – Legs – Feet – Breasts Size, Shape & Areola – Our Tummies – the curve of our backs – the tightness of our thighs – Shape of our Ass – and the “flower” that exists between our legs
When they see a woman…. especially naked they fantasize about having her sexually…
It is arrousing to them… to think they might be skilled enough to “catch” such an exotic creature and have her
Strip Joints & Sex Clubs fulfil this fantasy at a relatively low cost
No entanglements of a Relationship… a man can SEE all of woman including her flower up close & personal
And in some clubs… for a fee he can “possess” her in some sort of more intimate way… again without a lot of entanglements
And if he has enough money to spend… he can do the same with several woman
A wet dream for many a man
That is the attraction
It is a lusty fantasy… that can be both fed and had without much responsibility / consequence to the outside world
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In truth, many women don’t understand not only because we aren’t men, and don’t think like a man.
BUT we have been fed half-truths by men on WHAT the attraction is, and what truly goes on in many clubs
BECAUSE, they know it is a guilty pleasure… and if more women knew the truth, then more of us would object to what really goes on behind closed doors in a lot of these establishments
The word “stripper” covers a multitude of sins. Most of us believe it is an Exotic Dancer (and men don’t tell us the whole truth, a lie of ommission)… but in fact more often than not when a man says “Stripper” he is actually describing someone engaged in the Sex Industry beyond someone who just dances naked.
And THAT is the message that needs to get out there to ALL Women !!
KNOW what your guy is really up to… so you can protect yourself.
Hope this helps,