Struggling with being my own person?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1750 posts
Buzzing bee

Instead of focusing on meeting people, focus on exploring your own interests and doing what you like.

 

When you focus too much on meeting people, you can inadvertently do things or put yourself in situations that make meeting people or connecting with people difficult. When you focus on doing what you enjoy and exploring your interests, you can be more comfortable with yourself and with others, because others aren’t your focus. Does that make sense? 

 

To be your own person, you have to focus on you, not on other people. Enjoy yourself first. In time, you will meet people who you enjoy and who enjoy you. Clicking with people will happen when it happens. 

 

Post # 4
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2164 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I really enjoy being in situations where I am separated from my family (I absolutely LOVE my family) and I can be whoever I want to be. Like PP said, go out and explore things that you like. It’ll be weird and scary at first but then it’ll start to feel good to find yourself. Good luck and have fun!

Post # 5
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906 posts
Busy bee

I have moved around a lot and all I have to say is you can easily make friends in your classes, and try and join a few clubs or organizations and maybe get a school job or do a sport of some sort. This will help you make friends. I had a school job at my junior college and I made a lot of my friends from my school job as well as other ppl from other departments who I did joint activities with. I hope this helps.

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