- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
So I’m having a pretty small wedding ( less than 80 people) and I decided I am only going to have my maid of honor (or my maid of everything as we jokingly say) because most of my family and friends live out of state. My wedding is in October and my Maid/Matron of Honor I just informed me that she’s 6 weeks pregnant and due a week and a half after the wedding. I’m so happy and excited for her that it took me about a week to realize how much of a problem this may be. She works and is in school and is now pregnant. She will be 8 months pregnant when we had planned to do the bachelorette party and I’m sure far along when there would potentially be a shower. I’m not sure she’ll even feel like standing at the wedding. Neither one of us has children, so we have no clue what pregnancy is like. I kind of want to give her the option of backing out so she doesn’t get overwhelmed, but then I’ll also be stuck bridal party-less and it would feel pretty sad to plan my own shower and bachelorette party. I’m just feeling stuck and wondering if I’m being over-dramatic. this normal to feel this bummed about your own wedding?