Post # 1
So me and my FI have been together for 8 years now and we have always just had sex missionary. Well lately he’s been complaining that it’s the same ol same ol. Which I do agree. But in my previous relationship we were hard core do anything, bondage, role play, about any position you could imagine ect. He took it too far a few too many times towards the end of our relationship and I think that is why I am maybe scarred to want to try anything different. (Also my FI doesn’t know that)
I am also not as thin as I was back then either due to having 2 kids. So I know that plays a big factor in me not wanting to be on top or anything.
I don’t know I am at a lost, anyone have any suggestions?
Post # 3
@Imhis1andonly: Doggy style…the best.
Post # 5
- Wedding: April 2013 - A court...
Hmmm blindfold & handcuffs so you’re in control (sure he won’t try anything weird ). & won’t feel self concious? 🙂
Post # 6
@Imhis1andonly: He’s not going to mind if you’re a little…fluffier than you were 8 years ago. He loves you! If you don’t want to just get up there and bounce around, you can spoon together on your side and make it happen that way, you can also have him sit indian style, prop his back with a few pillows and climb onto his lap, that way its new, but you aren’t just up there for him to watch..you know?
Post # 7
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
I’m a HUGE fan of blind folds. It’ll help you overcome some of your self conciousness, and it’ll give him a whole new experience when he can’t control things.
Also, there’s LOTS of things you can do without getting into the rougher parts, especially if you’re in control.