(Closed) Super Annoying (FSIL Rant)

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2759 posts
Sugar bee

It sounds to me like she is trying to do things to irk you/make you jealous. Petty people like that thrive off of being able to make you react, so the biggest thing for you is to learn how to let it roll off your shoulders. Obviously, if she’s trying this hard she’s dealing with some insecurities. So let her be the problem and don’t allow her actions to bring you down! In the case of a conversation like that, I would simply smile, nod and say, “It was a pleasure to meet you” to the sister then excuse yourself.

Post # 4
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@armychica06: It’s obvious she is jealous and petty. Be cordial and aloof with her. She deserves your pity, not anger. Let her continue to get upset with you over petty stuff because she has the problem, not you.

Plan your wedding and surroundyourself with those who love you. You can always exxcuse yourself from future conversations or just say hi and walk away

Post # 5
2031 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It sounds to me like she is SUPER jealous because she waited a full 10 years for her proposal, and you didn’t.  I’d guess she compared rings, or just ignored yours entirely.  Ignore her, don’t rise to her bait and enjoy planning your wedding.  I’ll guarantee that if she plans her entire wedding JUST to trump yours…she will have a miserable time while you’ll appreciate yours more. 

Post # 6
2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Lower your expectations for her behavior.  Stop expecting her to be mature and you won’t be disappointed.  If she does show any signs of maturity, you’ll be pleasantly surprised!  

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