(Closed) Supposed Wedding Weekend

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
Member
86 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

girl’s weekend or just go see a movie when them and have dinner (no wedding talk though).  right now you need your friends and family 🙂

Post # 4
Member
1428 posts
Bumble bee

I cancelled my (what I call now my "practice") wedding 2 months out….most of my family had to fly in for it so needless to say, they all had booked plane tickets. I ended up still going home that weekend (without my ex) and although I was a bit sad/icky feeling at first, my parents threw an impromptu BBQ at their house & we ended up having one of the most fun "family gatherings" ever. Nobody brought up the original reason we were all together for that weekend & it turned into a super fun "friends & family" reunion.

Post # 5
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2434 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I agree with the other posters.  Get out and do something- you will feel better than if you just stayed home.  If your FI wants to come with you- that’s great.  If you going to get through this, it’s important to keep living your life.

I’m sorry you’re going through this and I’ll keep you in my thoughts as you and your FI work to get back on track.  Also- I commend you both for having the courage to postpone the wedding.  I think it shows you are honest about your relationship and if work through this, I think you will have the skills it takes to maintain a happy marriage in the long term.  Won’t it be wonderful for you both to celebrate your marriage without resevations or doubts hanging over your heads?

Good luck and I hope you post again and let us know how you make out.

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