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    ktkates87    August 6, 2010   Waterloo, ON

    Im curious to hear what everyone is planning for their wedding. Feel free to omit anything thats not something you're comfortable sharing!!

    Age: 22
    Profession: recent grad, social worker 
    Date: August 6, 2010
    # of guests: 120
    Length of engagement/dating: 4.5 years  
    Ballpark budget: 10-12,000
    Dress (style, designer): off rack, unsure of designer, fight and flair 
    Theme: mix of country (as in rural not cowboy) and vintage
    colours: Navy and white
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 5 on either side
    first dance song: "I will follow you into the dark" by death cab for cutie
    open bar/cash bar: complimentary beverages at dinner, champagne toast and then drink tickets-- after that a cash bar (not trying to be unclassy, just poor)
    honeymoon spot: we're headed to south korea after the wedding to teach for a year....we have about 3 weeks between wedding and moving so maaaaybe we will do something if its feasible/possible I guess
    Most excited about: all the DIY items i've been putting together and I'm hoping the guests will love. I also found a cheap deal on handkerchiefs and I'm handing those out instead of the kleenex packets.

    Your turn!

     
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    stephanie63087    May 14, 2011   Fort Wayne, Indiana

    Age: 23
    Profession: nursing student/ waitress 
    Date: may 14, 2011

    # of guests: 150 ish 

    Length of engagement/dating: 1 year/ 4 years dating  
    Ballpark budget: 8,000 ish
    Dress (style, designer): havent bought one yet!
    Theme: classic/ sophisticated
    colours: black and white with touches of green and damask accent
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 5 on both sides
    first dance song: "dont wanna miss a thing" by aerosmith
    open bar/cash bar: complimentary beer, wine, champagne toast and signature drink/ everythign else available for purchase 
    honeymoon spot: cancun!
    Most excited about: DIY centerpieces and candy bar/ having our first dance!!!

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada
    • Age: 27
    • Profession: PhD student/Personal trainer/Anatomy Instructor
    • Date: Aug 21 2010
    • # of guests: 60
    • Length of engagement: 1 year
    • Length of relationship: 6.5years
    • Budget: 15,000 (including rings and honeymoon)
    • Dress: Sottero & Midgely RSM 1308
    • Theme: Modern, Romantic, Elegant Whimsical
    • Colours: White, Silver and Hot Pink
    • Wedding Party: 3 on each side
    • First Dance Song: So Far Away - Staind
    • Open bar/Cash bar: Champagne punch at cocktail hour, wine with dinner, 4 hours of open bar after dinner
    • Honeymoon: Playa Del Carmen Mexico
    • Most Excited About: Sharing our day with friends and family!
     
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    MyraG    August 14, 2010  

    Age: 25

    Profession: Merchandise Planning Analyst
    Date: August 7, 2010
    # of guests: 175-200
    Length of engagement/dating: 5 years  
    Ballpark budget: We're way past $15k stopped counting after that.
    Dress (style, designer): Paigely by Maggie Sottero
    Theme: Traditiona and romanticl with a dash of preppy
    colours: Navy and blush pink 
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 4 on the brides side 2 on the grooms side
    first dance song: "You're still you"- Josh Groban
    open bar/cash bar: We're providing a couple of kegs since they have opoen taps and we're creating a tab for well drinks and wine. Once that's done, they're on their own.

    honeymoon spot: Hawaii or Caribbean next March or April
    Most excited about: being married to my best friend. Makes me smile just thinking about it!

     
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    Purple Nurse    March 5, 2011   Fresno, CA
  • Age: 31
  • Profession: Vascular Access Specialist 
  • Date: March 5, 2011
  • # of guests: 40-50
  • Length of engagement: about 1.5 yrs
  • Length of relationship: 9 months
  • Budget: 10,000
  • Dress: Mikaella 1367
  • Theme: Modern, simple, fun
  • Colours: Black, white and sage green
  • Wedding Party: 3 on each side
  • First Dance Song: Undecided, but so excited!!
  • Open bar/Cash bar: Champagne toast, a deposit on bar, then available for purchase
  • Honeymoon: Undecided, but somewhere with warm weather, beaches and drinks!
  • Most Excited About: Walking down the aisle with my dad, the first dance with my husband, partying like a rock star with my closest friends and family
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010  
  • Age: 25
  • Profession: PA
  • Date: Aug 14 2010
  • # of guests: 140
  • Length of engagement: 13 months
  • Length of relationship: nearly 3 years
  • Budget: 12,000 )
  • Dress: Demetrios sasha
  • Theme: Modern and Fresh
  • Colours: orange and red
  • Wedding Party: 3 on each side
  • First Dance Song: With You - Chris Brown
  • Open bar/Cash bar: Open Bar for Beer and Wine
  • Honeymoon: Melbourne, Australia
  • Most Excited About: Seeing friends and family and the day after, our honeymoon!
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    Daisylynn    August 22, 2010   Monterey, California
  • Age: 26
  • Profession: Student 
  • Date: 22 Aug 2010
  • # of guests: 80
  • Length of engagement: a little over a year
  • Length of relationship: 5 years a start of engagement
  • Budget: $10,000 (And came in under budget!!!)
  • Dress: Jessica McClintock
  • Theme: Ceremony is at the beach and Reception is at a victorian townhouse
  • Colours: Navy and shimmer... shimmer is a color right! :)
  • Wedding Party: 2 BM's for me and 3 GM for him
  • First Dance Song: I'm pushing for Better Together by Jack Johnson or You're My Sunday by Jessica Simpson
  • Open bar/Cash bar: Champagne toast with beer and wine
  • Honeymoon: We are doing it a year later and going to Europe for a month to travel
  • Most Excited About: Putting a ball and chain on my man candy:)  Seeing all my family is gonna be pretty cool too:), I live on the opposite coast:( 
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    Age: 22
    Profession: student, costumer
    Date: October 30, 2010
    # of guests: 60
    Length of engagement/dating: 4.5 years  
    Ballpark budget: $10k
    Dress (style, designer): Allure 8871, natural waist ballgown
    Theme: retro/pinup/rockabilly/1950s glam
    colours: black and white with red and aqua
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 2 on each side
    first dance song: "Hold My Head Above the Water" by Quiet Company
    open bar/cash bar: open bar
    honeymoon spot: none. FI is in the military and cant take enough leave. We'll probably spend a day or 2 in a B&B locally.
    Most excited about: just being married

     
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    Minutiae    May 2011  

    Profession: Writer
    Date: May 2011
    # of guests: ~150
    Length of engagement/dating: Over two years
    Ballpark budget: 10K + 5K honeymoon
    Dress (style, designer): Casablanca lace and chiffon mermaid, no sparkles
    Theme: Wedding.
    colours: No specific colors. Springy palette.
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 6 each
    first dance song: Not sure yet. Possibly You're My Home, Billy Joel.
    open bar/cash bar: Beer/wine
    honeymoon spot: Ten days in Ireland
    Most excited about: The ceremony, the honeymoon, and living together.

     
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    future mrs kirsch    July 24, 2010   Ferndale, MI

    Cute thread. I'll play.

    • Age:28
    • Profession: SAHM, hairstylist and student
    • Wedding date: July 24th, 2010- 4 days away!
    • # of guests: 112
    • Length of engagment: 1.5 years
    • Length of relationship: 6 years
    • Budget: 12-15K
    • Dress: DB, simple, strapless A-line
    • Theme: Zoo, nature
    • Colors: Kelly green and fushia
    • Wedding party: 3 girls, my BF's and 3 GM's, FH's brother and 2 friends
    • First dance song: We don't really have one but we are planning on dancing to DMB "You and Me"
    • Bar: Premium and open
    • Honeymoon: Going to another friend's wedding in Vegas. We'd like to have an actual honeymoon but can't afford both.
    • Most excited about: The stress and planning to be over!

     

     
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    Smirp    September 3, 2010  

     

    • Age:21 (groom 22)
    • Profession: Student for dental hygiene/waitress
    • Wedding date: September 3, 2010
    • # of guests: 180ish
    • Length of engagment: 8 months
    • Length of relationship: 4 years (friends prior)
    • Budget: 10K
    • Dress: Strapless A line Maggie Sottero.
    • Theme: Rustic late summer tuscany feel
    • Colors: Yellow/white, and peaches and creams in boquet
    • Wedding party: 3 gals and 3 guys, 2 flowergirls and yet to choose a ringbearer
    • First dance song: Yet to choose soo many I love..
    • Bar: no alcohol. Due to mix of alcoholics, people who dont get along, and students gettin hitched. :D
    • Honeymoon: We won two, and still aren't sure if we can afford the tickets alone.. *sigh*
    • Most excited about: Marrying my best friend. Being with family from so far away,
     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I'm a newlywed, but I'll play too.  Tongue out

    • Age: 30
    • Profession: physician
    • Date: June 5, 2010
    • # of guests: 135
    • Length of engagement: 1.5 years
    • Length of relationship: 4.5 years
    • Budget: $40k (including rings and honeymoon)
    • Dress: Marisa 726
    • Theme:  Classic, Romantic, Elegant
    • Colours: Plum and Mustard
    • Wedding Party: 6 on each side
    • First Dance Song: I Can't Help Falling In Love With You-- Elvis Presley
    • Open bar/Cash bar: Hosted beer/wine/champagne with cash bar for other cocktails
    • Honeymoon: Maui
    • Best part of the wedding: Too many to list, but loved saying our vows and our first kiss!  :)
     
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    Baby_PebbleS    October 10, 2010   Brisbane, Australia

    Age: 24
    Profession: Receptionist (trying to get out of it)
    Date: October, 10th 2010 (10/10/10 at 10am haha)
    # of guests: 25
    Length of engagement/dating: about 2yrs
    Ballpark budget: 2000 (including honeymoon.. not including the rings)
    Dress (style, designer): off rack... not an actual "wedding" dress. but it's perfect
    Theme: no theme
    colours: Navy and hot pink... white and black 
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 2 each.
    first dance song: haven't figured that out
    open bar/cash bar: we're buying all the alcohol
    honeymoon spot: Up the coast in the mountain in treehouse *Beautiful*
    Most excited about: The honeymoon... and surprising everyone at the 'reception' that we got married that morning!!

     
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    clarebee    August 21, 2010   Vienna, VA (wedding in Greensboro, GA)

    Age: 23
    Profession: student advisor for an online university
    Date: August 21, 2010
    # of guests: 120ish
    Length of engagement/dating: 1 year/4.5 years
    Ballpark budget: 25,000
    Dress (style, designer): Mikaela - strapless sweetheart A line
    Theme: no theme - love and marriage?
    colours: green, yellow, brown
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 7 each
    first dance song: "Today" by Joshua Radin
    open bar/cash bar: open bar
    honeymoon spot: Ocho Rios, Jamaica
    Most excited about: marrying my FI, seeing his face as I walk down the aisle, getting ready the morning of with my girls and mom, seeing all my friends and family, seeing all my hard work come together!

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    Age: 24
    Profession: social worker 
    Date: Sept. 24, 2010
    # of guests: 160-180
    Length of engagement/dating: 15 months/3 years  
    Dress (style, designer): Romona Keveza, not sure of the style #
    Theme: elegant, formal, vintage garden party
    colours: eggplant, green, gray, white
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 4 on each side
    first dance song: not sure...leaning toward amos lee's sweet pea
    open bar/cash bar: open bar alllll the way!                                                  honeymoon spot:South Africa and Mozambique!
    Most excited about: seeing FI's face when he sees me all dolled up, and spending the morning getting ready with my BMs and my Mom.

     
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    mishelleez    November 5, 2010   DW- Bahamas

    Age: 24
    Profession: Office Manager & Kitchen Manager                                               Date: Married Nov 5, 2010 Hometown reception Nov, 27, 2010
    # of guests: 60-80
    Length of engagement/dating: 1/3.5 years  
    Ballpark budget: DW-3k Reception 10k?
    Dress (style, designer): DW-Short & china Reception A-line & DB 
    Theme: Christmas!
    colours: Red, Green & Gold
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 0                                                               first dance song: Dono- FH's job
    open bar/cash bar: Pony Keg Hosted- Cash Bar                                            honeymoon spot:We're having a weddingmoon in the Bahamas- Cant wait!       Most excited about: Being married, Going to the Bahamas (We really need a vacation!) And the big par-ty at home!

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    @ktkates87: I love your first dance song! It is one of our favorites and we were thinking about it for first dance but its kind of hard to dance to i thought... have you guys practiced what kind of dance you'll do? 

    Age: 25

    Profession: lawyer

    Date: 2/26/2011

    # of guests: inviting 150, hoping for 110

    Length of engagement/dating: 16 months/2.5 years

    Dress: Impression Bridal, Amani

    Theme: I don't have a concise theme... but I'm kind of going for a cool urban rooftop party vibe

    colors: gold/champagne, blue, green, with peacock accents

    bridesmaids/groomsan: 1 MOH, 2 BM, unsure on gm yet bc fi hasn't asked!

    first dance song: haven't decided!

    open bar/cash bar: It is an open bar, but we provide all of the alcohol so we're just going to do beer and wine

    honeymoon: still undecided!

    most excited about: the ceremony itself, and then the after-dinner part of the reception where we just get to dance and laugh and be incredibly happy that it is HERE and the planning is OVER. :)

     
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    marlew    October 23, 2010   Ajax, Ontario

    Age: 28
    Profession: business services analyst  
    Date: October 23 2010
    # of guests: 250
    Length of engagement/dating: dating - 8 years, engagement, 1.5 years
    Dress (style, designer): a-line, Jai Bridals 9972
    Theme: formal fun, cross cultural
    colours: burgundy white and pewter
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 4 bridesmaids, 1 bridesman, 7 groomsmen
    first dance song: not chosen yet
    open bar/cash bar: open
    honeymoon spot: 2 week cruise, eastern and western caribbean
    Most excited about: getting it over with!!! but of the whole day probably the first look photos

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    Age: 37 (the oldest bride replying to this so far...) 
    Profession: Director of Annual Giving
    Date: October 29, 2010
    # of guests: 135

    • Length of engagement/dating: 1.5 yrs engaged/4.5 years dating
    • Ballpark budget: 20-25K is what the costs are going to be hovering around.
    • Dress (style, designer): Lavina by Maggie Sottero 
    • Theme: fall with a splash of halloween (but nothing tacky)
      colours: eggplant and burnt orange
    • # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 3 on either side
    • first dance song: 'This is Love' by Jonathan Butler 
    • open bar/cash bar: Open Bar
    • honeymoon spot: Jamaica - i need to relax and do nothing
    • Most excited about: everything...i can't pinpoint one thing.
     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    Another newlywed but this is too cute to not play!

    • Age: 24
    • Profession: Theatre stage manager
    • Date: July 18, 2010
    • # of guests: 80-90
    • Length of engagement: 13 months
    • Length of relationship: 4.5 years
    • Budget: £10K (including rings and honeymoon)
    • Dress: off-the-rack, Coast's Victoria Jane in ivory
    • Theme:  Timeless, 50s-ish, Classic
    • Colours: Yellow and white
    • Wedding Party: 1 on each side
    • First Dance Song: None - we don't dance
    • Open bar/Cash bar: £3000 behind the bar for anything on offer. 
    • Honeymoon: Cairns (8 nights), Sydney (5 nights)
    • Best part of the wedding: The reception! 
     
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    mimi06d    November 2010   Northern Virginia
    • Age:22
    • Profession: Teacher/Grad Student (last semester, yay!)
    • Wedding date: November 2010
    • # of guests: 120
    • Dress: Alfred Angelo, A-line
    • Colors: Black and gold
    • Wedding party: 4 BM, 1 Jr. BM, 1 FG, 4 GM (but possibly 3 -- a friend is a marine and may be getting deployed), 1 RB
    • First dance song: "Look at Me" by Carrie Underwood
    • Bar: Open Beer & Wine
    • Honeymoon: Still working on it but it looks like Bahamas Atlantis Resort!
    • Most excited about: Being done with the planning and seeing Fi at the end of the aisle. 
     
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    walkunafraid    9/5/2010   Maine
    • Age: 30
    • Profession:  Former business consultant (quit my job to take time off before the wedding)
    • Date: September 5, 2010
    • # of guests:  ~70
    • Length of engagement/dating:  Met on February 4, 2007, so we'll be together 3 years and 7 months when we get married.  We've been engaged since Thanksgiving weekend of 2008.
    • Ballpark budget:  $45-50K excluding rings and honeymoon
    • Dress:  Cymbeline Agadir
    • Theme:  Rustic chic (a compromise between his outdoorsy and my modern style)
    • Colors:  Green and brown with orange accents
    • Bridesmaids and groomsmen:  None on either side
    • First dance song:  "Real Love" by the Beatles
    • Open bar/cash bar:  Open bar.  We're providing all the liquor and just hired a bartender, so we're having all varieties of Dogfish Head Bear (his favorite), Monogamy and Cupcake wines, Nuvo for the toast, and full selection of liquor
    • Honeymoon:  12 nights in the Onion House (a private residence available for rent) in Hawaii.  It's rated by the Travel Channel as having one of the top 10 most romantic bedrooms in the world!
    • Most excited about:  Seeing his face when I walk down the aisle, hearing the vows he's written, and seeing how all of my DIY elements come together

     

     
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    walkunafraid    9/5/2010   Maine
    • Age: 30
    • Profession:  Former business consultant (quit my job to take time off before the wedding)
    • Date: September 5, 2010
    • # of guests:  ~70
    • Length of engagement/dating:  Met on February 4, 2007, so we'll be together 3 years and 7 months when we get married.  We've been engaged since Thanksgiving weekend of 2008.
    • Ballpark budget:  $45-50K excluding rings and honeymoon
    • Dress:  Cymbeline Agadir
    • Theme:  Rustic chic (a compromise between his outdoorsy and my modern style)
    • Colors:  Green and brown with orange accents
    • Bridesmaids and groomsmen:  None on either side
    • First dance song:  "Real Love" by the Beatles
    • Open bar/cash bar:  Open bar.  We're providing all the liquor and just hired a bartender, so we're having all varieties of Dogfish Head Bear (his favorite), Monogamy and Cupcake wines, Nuvo for the toast, and full selection of liquor
    • Honeymoon:  12 nights in the Onion House (a private residence available for rent) in Hawaii.  It's rated by the Travel Channel as having one of the top 10 most romantic bedrooms in the world!
    • Most excited about:  Seeing his face when I walk down the aisle, hearing the vows he's written, and seeing how all of my DIY elements come together

     

     
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    TheFutureMcBride    August 2010   Virginia

    Age: 30
    Profession: Marketing Coordinator
    Date: August 15, 2010
    # of guests: ~75
    Length of engagement/dating: 4.5 months engaged/2 years dating
    Ballpark budget: 10,000
    Dress (style, designer): Alita Grahm Kleinfeld Kollection (Blowout Sale), kind of A-line

    Theme: outdoor/tandem bicycle/funfest
    colours: Fuschia and David's Bridal Pool
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 5 each with our dogs as ring dog and flower dog
    first dance song: "Feelin' Good" Micheal Buble
    open bar/cash bar: wine and IPA beer are provided, liquor is cash
    honeymoon spot:  Hilton Head (was supposed to be Alaska, but travel time hindered the time)
    Most excited about: Marrying McGroom and seeing people I haven't seen in forever. The details I'm excited about too, but I'm more concerned with the people. Oh, and showing off my clay flower bouquets.

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    Age: 23
    Profession: Sales Manager
    Date: December 31, 2010
    # of guests: 200ish
    Length of engagement/dating: 5.5 years  
    Ballpark budget: under $10,000
    Dress (style, designer): Casablanca 1901 - Mermaid style - Very wintery!
    Theme: No theme really - elegant
    colours: Black, ivory, and champagne
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 6 on each side 
    first dance song: "You and Me" - Lifehouse 
    open bar/cash bar: Host on beer, wine, and soda - cash on cocktails.   
    honeymoon spot: 7 days in Puerto Rico

    Most excited about: We don't leave for our honeymoon until January 4, so we rented a suite at a bed and breakfast for the day AFTER the wedding.  Private hot tub, fireplace etc.

     
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    walkunafraid    9/5/2010   Maine

    Sorry, duplicate post--bad internet connection today!

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

  • Age: 24
  • Profession: Engineer
  • Date: June 20 2009
  • # of guests: 125
  • Length of engagement: 13 months
  • Length of relationship: 5.5 years
  • Budget: $18,500
  • Dress: Maggie's Irina
  • Theme: Romantic & Classic I guess
  • Colours: Champagne/Champagne pink
  • Wedding Party: 6 each
  • First Dance Song: It's Your Love
  • Open bar/Cash bar: Open Bar with beer, wine, signature cocktails
  • Honeymoon: Excellence, Dominican Republic
  • Most Excited About: I think I was more excited about our honeymoon =]
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    nbblondie    November 5, 2010   Houston, TX/Temecula, CA

    Age: 27
    Profession: flight attendant
    Date: November 5, 2010
    # of guests: 75ish
    Length of engagement/dating: 1 year
    Ballpark budget: 20-30,000
    Dress (style, designer): Christos Desiree
    Theme: rustic chic vineyard
    colours: chocolate brown and pale yellow
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 4 on either side
    first dance song: Lovely Tonight by Joshua Radin
    open bar/cash bar: beer and wine open bar
    honeymoon spot: Hawaii - the Big Island and Kauai
    Most excited about: everything!

     
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    MrsMcGyro    July 9, 2011   New York

    Age: 25
    Profession: Production Manager at a Music Merchandising Co.
    Date: July 09, 2011
    # of guests: 160-170
    Length of engagement/dating: 19 mo engagement/ 4 yrs dating 
    Ballpark budget: 35-40K
    Dress (style, designer): LaSposa Fabiola. It's low-key and lovely!
    Theme: Fun Garden Party. The pallet is a mix of oranges, yellows, and greens.
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 3 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen
    first dance song: "First Day of My Life" by Bright Eyes.
    open bar/cash bar: Open bar. We're able to purchase our own alcohol and the caterer provides the bartender, so it's much cheaper than most places.
    honeymoon spot: Either Costa Rica or Portugal. We haven't quite decided, but I do know I want to see a volcano and at least 1 monkey.
    Most excited about: Being a wifey and hopefully proving to my FI's fam that weddings don't have to be in huge function halls with black tie attire and crystals draped over everything to be beautiful. We're not on the Jersey Shore!

     
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    SuperKate    May 28, 2011   Missouri / Playa del Carmen, Mexico

    Age: 28
    Profession: Sports PR
    Date: 5/28/11
    # of Guests: 30-40
    Length of Engagement/Dating: 14 months dating/19 month engagement
    Ballpark budget: 10,000 (including rings/honeymoon)
    Dress (style, designer): David's Bridal V9743
    Theme: Beach (it's a destination wedding in Mexico)
    Colors: Fuschia and orange
    # Bridesmaids/Groomsmen: 1 of each
    Honeymoon Spot: Playa del Carmen, Mexico, where we're getting married
    Most Excited About: Just getting married!

     
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    sahsabahs    June 2011  

    Age: 25
    Profession: attorney
    Date: June 2011
    # of guests: 160
    Length of engagement/dating: 4.5 years  
    Ballpark budget: 30-40,000
    Dress ---
    Theme: pretty
    colours: pale blue, yellow, white
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 3 on either side
    first dance song: "That's All"
    open bar/cash bar: open bar
    honeymoon ---
    Most excited about: the ceremony we're writing

     
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    gabrielleelise1981    August 28, 2010   Portland, Maine

    Survey says!!!!

    Age: 28
    Profession: telecommunications paralegal / miniature food artisan / other Etsy crafts
    Date: August 28, 2010
    # of guests: 75 adults, under 10 children
    Length of engagement/dating: 17 month engagement, dating now for over 4 years 
    Ballpark budget: 25,000 (gulp)
    Dress (style, designer): Pronovias Helio (not the Helio you get when you google), it’s a strapless mermaid gown.
    Theme: “Cape Cod Kennedy style” (um, my FH said that). Coastal/ocean (not tropical), classy, touches of books mixed in.
    Colors: French Blue, chocolate brown, pale pink and ivory
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 1 on either side (and they are both women)
    first dance song: unknown – yeah I know, we need to get on that!
    open bar/cash bar: cocktail hour: open bar with beer/wine/champage, during dinner there is poured wine service (both red and white)
    honeymoon spot: FH is a professor and starts teaching right after we get married, so we’re doing a series of mini-moons throughout the year, then jetting to Tuscany for a big honeymoon next summer – can’t wait!.
    Most excited about: Being married to FH! The FOOD. All the DIY items I've been making. Seeing family and friends I don’t usually get to see. Our mini-moon to NYC in September.

     
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    jldown2    December 11, 2010  

    Age: 24
    Profession: Graduate student/ ESL Instructor 
    Date: December 11 2010
    # of guests: 180 (FMIL needs the *whole* family invited
    Length of engagement/dating: 16 months/ 4.5 years
    Ballpark budget: 10-12,000
    Dress (style, designer):having it made (actually less expensive than buying a dress and having it altered)
    Theme: none
    colours: eggplant 
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 3 on each side 
    first dance song: haven't chosen one yet
    open bar/cash bar: open bar
    honeymoon spot: a mini-moon (ish) to the Wisconsin Dells (Just to get away--and what can beat an indoor waterpark in December--we recognize it will be hokey) and probably Croatia and Slovenia in the Spring
    Most excited about: marrying my best friend surrounded by my family and friends

     
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    Ms.Beeliever    June 25, 2011  

    Age: 27
    Profession: Teacher
    Date: June 25, 2011
    # Of guests: 250
    Length of engagement/dating: 2.5 years
    Ballpark budget: 35-40k
    Dress (style, designer): Allure 8700
    colours: Lapis, Silver and Bright pink (BM are carrying bright pink Gerber Daisies)
    Wedding Party: 8 bridesmaids, 8 groomsmen, 2 flower girls, 4 honorary ring bearers ( for pictures only, the boys are not walking down the isle)
    First dance song:  Still deciding... too many good ones.
    Open bar/cash bar:  Open bar for non-alcoholic drinks… no alcohol @ our wedding.
    Honeymoon spot:  5 Days at Disney World. Then, taking a 7-day cruise.
    Most excited about: Being married to the man of my dreams. Also, I can’t wait to see the look on his face when I am walking down the isle.

     
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    BeachFanatic    10-2-10   New Jersey

    Age: 26 
    Profession: graphic designer 
    Date: October 2, 2010
    # of guests: invited 165, hoping 150 
    Length of engagement/dating: almost 3 years (1.5 year engagement)  
    Ballpark budget: originally said 24k... nearing 28/30.... bah.. we just got a really nice unexpected gift from my parents that will help A LOT though.
    Dress (style, designer): Allure, i think. a-line, strapless, sweetheart, no bling 
    Theme: beachy, sea glass, starfish. "down the shore"   (we are getting married on the beach)
    colours: "sea glass"  light sage, light aqua... and gold. 
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 5 girls, 6 guys 
    first dance song: "here there and everywhere" beatles 
    open bar/cash bar: open bar! passed frozen drinks during cocktail hour as well! 
    honeymoon spot: Curacao for 10 days
    Most excited about: seeing everything come together finally!

     
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    missmouse29    July 2011   NWOntario, Canada

    Age: 22
    Profession: artist/freelance writer
    Date: July 23, 2011
    # of guests: 50-80 (unofficial)
    Length of engagement/dating: 3(e)/6(d) years  
    Ballpark budget: 3-5k
    Dress (style, designer): undecided
    Theme: -- wedding? --afternoon 'tea'(/bbq/picnic/lawn party thing)
    colours: tonal blues, gray, white etc.
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 3-4 either side
    first dance song: undecided (likely will not be dancing unless we go to a rave after the fact, har-har)
    open bar/cash bar:  limited, complimentary alcohol/beer.
    honeymoon spot: undecided
    Most excited about: being married.

     
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    jimbert321    September 10, 2011   Southwestern Ontario
  • Age: 28
  • Profession: Admin Assitant
  • Date: Sept 10, 2011 (9/10/11!)
  • # of guests: 140 (possibly less)
  • Length of engagement: just under 2 years
  • Length of relationship: 4 years
  • Budget: $20,000 but doing everything I can to make it less!
  • Dress: Watters Delicias
  • Theme: Not sure, something casual and fun!
  • Colours: Sea Glass, blues, turquoise and greens with a little yellow
  • Wedding Party: 2 on each side
  • First Dance Song: You're My Best Friend by Queen
  • Open bar/Cash bar: Wine with dinner and cash/$2 bar
  • Honeymoon: Hawaii or St Lucia
  • Most Excited About: Marrying my best friends and partying with friends and family.
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    AnamCara    April 10, 2010   Ireland/Connecticut

    I'm in too!

    • Age: 33 (was 32 when we got married) 
    • Profession: Study Abroad program director
    • Date: April 10, 2010
    • # of guests: About 140 I think?
    • Length of engagement: 13 months
    • Length of relationship: At our wedding it was 3.5 years
    • Budget: No idea!  Budget wedding though!
    • Dress: Casablanca 1795
    • Theme:  Joyful, warm and fun!
    • Colours: Berry, purples, creams
    • Wedding Party: 6 girls on my side plus FG, 7 on DH's side plus RB
    • First Dance Song: Better by Tom Baxter
    • Open bar/Cash bar: Open for a while, then cash
    • Honeymoon: Barbados for one week, Palm Island in the Grenadines for one week...bliss...
    • Best part of the wedding: The ceremony - loved it start to finish!
     
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    Audrey9398    September 18, 2010   Merrimack NH

    Age: 28
    Profession: Registered Nurse-Pediatrics
    Date: September 18, 2010
    # of guests: 150 invited guest
    Length of engagement/dating: 1 year 3 months/7 years
    Ballpark budget:20,000- 25,000 (not including rings and honeymoon)
    Dress (style, designer): Maggie Sottero Monroe
    colours:  Black and White Damask and hot pink
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 5 of each
    first dance song: "Come Rain or Come Shine"
    open bar/cash bar: The bar will depend on how we are doing on budget. I would like a signature drink, champagne toast is included and depending on how much money is left we are putting that towards to bar and after that it will be a cash bar.
    honeymoon spot: Sandals Royal Bahamian- Honeymoon Village Suite with Butler-Can't wait!!!!!
    Most excited about: marrying my best friend, seeing all my friends and family in one place, wearing my dress and seeing all the little details that I have been planning for months and months come together.

     
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    Querida       Sugar Land, TX

    Age: 31
    Profession: Oil & Gas Engineering Industry 
    Date: October 10, 2010
    # of guests: 200+
    Length of engagement/dating: about 2 years 
    Ballpark budget: 15,000
    Dress (style, designer): Aria dress 185
    Theme: Blend of rustic and elegant
    colours: Chocolate, Burnt orange, and Latte
    # bridesmaids, # of groomsmen: 6 of each + 4 Jrs. (2 girls, 2 boys)
    first dance song: "I'd Love to be Your Last" by Clay Walker 
    open bar/cash bar: Beer and Wine plus non-alcoholic drinks 
    honeymoon spot: Key West, FL
    Most excited about: Marrying the man I was supposed to be with all along.  Although, with my craft-lovin' self, the DIY has been super rewarding!

     

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