- 7 years ago
Hey bees… so I’m very suspicious about this upcoming weekend. I wrote in an earlier post that my SO has a document on his computer that specifically says “The Ring” and next to it he has a dollar amount he wants to spend. We have talked multiple times about getting married someday, but we don’t have a specific timeline. I’ve told him that we would have to ask my dad for permission first, in person, not over the phone. (he seemed displeased as he rarely sees my dad)
We are currently away from each other for spring break and I feel like when we reunite this weekend something might happen. He is going to visit me in my hometown for a family function, and he is bringing his parents with him. It is a 7 SEVEN hour drive for his parents to be there so that is the first thing that makes me suspicious that there might be an engagement on the horizon.
The second is this. Last night he went shopping at the mall with a mutual FEMALE friend of ours (they are from the same hometown and she is also the same friend who a month earlier told me while drunk that she wants my SO and I to get married soon so she has a wedding to look forward to). He completely offered the information to me but said they were just killing time before their other friend got off of work. (They spent 2 hours there) Could they have been looking at rings?
Today, his mom took off of work to go shopping with him. Now, it is very common that my SO and his mom would spend time shopping at the mall because that is a very common way for them to spend time together without too much effort. But to take off of work on a Tuesday seems very special.
Lastly, my entire family is asking a lot of questions about my plans for this weekend. Now granted, I don’t make it home too often, but my family is normally not this nosey because I am very independent.
So here are my suspicions…. I think he is either taking the time to ask my dad for permission this weekend… or there will be a proposal.
What do you bees think about all these fishy signals??