Post # 1
So friday is the big day and though i’m not nervous (yet!) i don’t know if what i’m feeling is normal… I feel like this isn’t real, like this isn’t all happening for little ole me and FI… maybe its because I always thought I would end up a spinster or what, but I can’t believe its actually happening!! Did any of you bees feel that way? When did the nerves actually hit you?
don’t get me wrong, when people mention that its only 3 days away I feel beyond excited, and during our rehersal, I couldn’t help but smile looking at my FI at the end of the aisle, but i still I kind of wish I felt more nervous so that people could say it was normal… is this feeling that I have normal?… ps i haven’t mentioned this feeling to anyone for fear that people will say its not normal lol…
Post # 3
@adeharo210: HAHA, I’ll let ya know in 15 days 😉
Post # 5
@adeharo210: I didn’t feel nervous, but I wish I had!
I feel like I floated through my wedding day without really being “present” in what was going on. I just kept thinking “This is the only time I will wear this dress. This isn’t dress up. I’m actually getting married.”
And during the recption, all I coud think was “This is boring. Why is this boring?” So I wandered around and talked to people, and I was happy, but just not elated because I was still in shock.
I actually feel like I was REALLY drunk the whole day… And I only had one Mimosa post-ceremony, at our luncheon reception!
Post # 6
@BrandNewBride: thanks for sharing your experience, I have a feeling I might be like that on our day of… not so much the ceremony (i get terribly nervous in front of a crowd) but during the reception.