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Tacky or OK? Shoes showing in your wedding gown.......

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  • poll: Can your shoes show in your dress?
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    JessyLovesJaCoby    May 12, 2012   Texas

    I bought my dress last weekend & absolutely love it. Before leaving the store I asked for a pair of shoes to try with it and realized the dress is going to be too short to wear with heels. My bridemaids convinced me that paying $50 for the longer version of the dress would be silly & I should just wear wedding Tom's. I agreed, but now I regret the decision. I can still pay extra and get the longer version, but am getting a lot of "why can't your shoes show?" when I talk to other people about it. So, should I get the longer dress or should I allow my shoes to show?!

    Below is a link for my dres! 

     http://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_Lace-Cap-sleeve-Trumpet-with-Keyhole-Back-and-Sash-VW9768

     

    Thanks for the advice!

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    That's a beautiful dress for an amazing price. I would pay the $50, which is really such a small amount of money, to have your dress fit properly.  

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    I don't think having your toes peeking out would be a huge issue, especially if they were cute!

     
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    Firie    September 21, 2012   Australia

    Shoes showing can look great dpending on the style of the dress.  Your dress is gorgeous, but with that long train, shoes peeping out may look a little out of place.

     
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    Firie    September 21, 2012   Australia

    Shoes showing can look great dpending on the style of the dress.  Your dress is gorgeous, but with that long train, shoes peeping out may look a little out of place.

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    if you will be asking yourself for the next 6mths if you should have spent the $50 on the longer length then the answer is yes - do it.

    beautiful dress btw!

     
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    Angelz_love    June 16, 2012   San Francisco

    @eloping:  I agree!

    if it bothers youthen yeah change it, I don't think anyone will say "ew that's tacky!" though

     
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    Brielle    May 22, 2009  

    I would recommend ordering the longer gown.

     
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    Otaqueen    June 15, 2013   Queens, NY

    If you look at the first picture on the dresses site you can see the models shoe peeking out a little bit which makes me think that that is the intended style.

     

    I don't think it would look tacky but if you aren't comfortable I would get the longer dress.

    However just a warning, I have heard nothing but horror stories about David's Bridal alterations. Maybe you can find someone in your community who could fix it.

     
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    JessyLovesJaCoby    May 12, 2012   Texas

    Thanks for all the advice girls & for the compliments on my dress! 

     

     
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    nickie362    August 9, 2013   Chicago, IL

    @JessyLovesJaCoby:  The length is what makes the dress beautiful.  I say go for the longer version.

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    Welcome to the Hive!  What a beautiful dress!  Did you like the shorter look with the shoes?  That is what really counts.

     
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    MademoiselleL    August 24, 2012   Vancouver, BC (wedding in Maui)

    I don't think your shoes should show unless the dress is specifically meant for that.  I would get the longer length.

     
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    bride4968    July 13, 2013  

    I would order a longer dress.

     
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    Ms.GoodEarth    May 25, 2013   Los Angeles, CA

    That's my dress too!  It's such a gorgeous dress!!!  I think you should order the longer gown.  It's not that much money and I think it'll look a lot better.

     
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    Booknerd    March 14, 2015  

    I think if the shoes are not like, a crazy bright, out of place colour, then of course! Or even if they are one of your colors, go for it! :D

    Beautiful dress, btw!

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    I would get the longer length. Actually, scratch that, I would wear cute flats...like I wanted to. haha! But yeah, I'd order it longer to wear the shoes you love without feeling self-conscious.

     
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    Cappugcino    May 18, 2013   Midwest getting Married in Perth, ON near Ottawa

    I'd either pay a bit more to get the gown in a longer length or go with a flat as some of the PPs have suggested.

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    If it's just 50 bucks, I'd just get the longer one.  But I also don't think it's a big deal if your shoes show!

     
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    Jenniphyr    February 2, 2013   Alberta, Canada

    I like the look of shoes peeping out. If you're going to spend hundreds of dollars on a new pair of shoes anyways, why would you want them hidden by your dress?

     
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    pinkfrog    October 20, 2012   South Jersey

    I tried that dress on in a too-short version and it's not pretty when it's too short.  The organza doesn't lay right and it just looks droopy.  And remember, a crinoline will make it even shorter.

    Buy the longer length. It's worth it.

     
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    msfahrenheit    August 28, 2011   Blacksburg VA

    My dress was a little too short, so my shoes were showing. Looking at the photos, I really regret not having a longer dress. I think it looks less bridal and less elegant.

     
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    GreenDream    February 25, 2012   Toronto/Edmonton

    The shoes show on the model. Why not? Seems like it's just the style of the dress.

     

     
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    mypinkshoes    April 28, 2012   mexico/ontario

    it's a lovely dress.  you didn't mention how much of your shoes will show.  if just your toes peep through, i would say that would be okay but if it is much shorter, you may want to get the longer one.  that dress style and material looks like it needs to be floor length. nothing worse than an ill-fitted dress.

    i think it would be worth the extra $50.  you got such a great deal already.

     
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    kate02121    August 18, 2012  

    As someone who has trouble finding clothes long enough all the time, I would pay the $50 and be thrilled that it could fit the way I wanted. All too often I have to skip buying something because it's not available in long. 

    I wouldn't call it tacky though, just might not look like it fits that well. 

     
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    cardus    October 27, 2012   twin cities, MN

    @Firie:  i agree with this, for the most part.

    if it's a question of a tiny bit of toe-peekage, i wouldn't worry about it too much, but if your dress is going to be several inches too short in heels, i'd definitely get the longer dress.  a dress that style without the train would look ok a couple inches above the ground, but i think it would look a bit silly dragging a train on the ground behind it while too short in the front.

     
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    marylandnurse    October 15, 2011   Baltimore, MD

    I had some pretty severe toe peekage, but I wanted it that way. I'm 5'2 and I ordered my dress in the petite length because of the design on the bottom of the dress. Had I ordered regular length, I would have ended up chopping 6 inches off and all of the beautiful embroidery. SORRY! I did have super cute shoes on, and then put flips on at the reception and the dress was brushing the floor at that point. For whatever reason I can't get the stupid photo to upload! I'll try again later =)

     
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    khf777    October 12, 2012   New Orleans

    Definitely pay the $50. It can be hemmed if it's too long, but if you don't add the extra length and then decide that you want it, there's nothing that can be done.

     
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    Mrs.Lonestar    June 3, 2012   lives in NYC, wedding in Austin, TX

    i'm guessing that the dress, if you wore heels, would be only a few inches off the ground. to me, it would be obvious that the dress wasn't fit properly. 

     
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    WantToBeM.E.    October 4, 2014   Long Island, NY

    It depends on your style...I plan on buying some sparkly Jimmy Choos, so you'd better believe they'll be making an appearance! 

    Edit-I think it's OK if they are peeking out a tiny bit, and you show them off for pictures and stuff...but not that the entire shoe is visible for the entire night, then it's obv that the dress isn't long enough. :)

     
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    If it is just the toe like the model, I tink you are fine with the standard length. After all, that's how the model wears the dress. However, if your whole shoe is showing, it may look funny and too short.

     
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    kerensa    May 20, 2013   Ohio

    go with cute flats! this is a great way to  be comfortable on your feet and have a beautiful dress.

     
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    RR    October 2012  

    It sounds like you are second guessing it, so go with your gut!  I don't think $50 is unreasonable for a longer dress... you may find cheap heels to go with it!

     
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    vanextras    February 17, 2013  

    This is probably super late, haha.  I think it depend on how much of your shoe is showing. If it only goes down to your ankles, then definitely get the longer dress.  If not, then its up to preference.  Keep in mind that if you get the longer dress, you may need to have it hemmed, which then will end up costing you more than the original 50 bucks.  Also, personally, if only a little bit of your shoe is peeking through, I would keep it as is so that you can move around an dance a little more easily. 

     

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