Post # 1
I was gonna wait until 31st of December to stop waiting on my proposal but right now, I’m not interested.
We decided to get married since in August but it was off-beat. We had a conversation that led to it (he initiated it). I eventually told him that I won’t be doing any wedding planning until he asked me to marry him.
I read a lot of threads and even created my own about non-proposal engagements and no longer see any problem with it. What gave me the extra push was the fact that I am now on Christmas vacation (teacher here) and have nothing better to do than wedding plan.
I’ve checked out venues and we have settled on 1 for the ceremony and another for the reception, we are checking out photographers and videographers, we are about to settle on a caterer as well as a date (it was april but we pushed it down to August). My dress is designed to be custom made and I already have my shoes.
It doesn’t make sense to keep my name on the list… I’M ENGAGED LADIES!!
I still love this board and will still hang around and get excited for those suspicious dates, the good days and the bad days.
Good luck ladies!
Post # 3
Congrats on your upcoming wedding, @tiff-tiff-tiff … I followed your story for awhile while lurking on the boards and am so happy for you 🙂
Post # 4
@tiff-tiff-tiff: congrats! I’ll admit that when I first read the title of your thread, I was sad..but this is great! You ARE engaged so might as well run full force into planning mode if you’re sticking with the August date! Have fun planning! 🙂
Post # 5
@tiff-tiff-tiff: this is awesome! I think no matter what, when you do get a formal proposal it will still be just as special. Nothing will change that. If it’s logical and you two are on the same page about planning then more power to ya! enjoy!
Post # 6
@tiff-tiff-tiff: Woohoo!! You ARE engaged, and August is right around the corner!
Happy planning and keep us updated!
Post # 7
Congrats! I was a bit sad too, but I see that you guys are engaged! Very exciting 🙂
Post # 8
@tiff-tiff-tiff: Woo hooo! Happy Planning!
Post # 9
@tiff-tiff-tiff: Congrats on the upcoming wedding 🙂
Post # 10
@veryberry13: I will definitely keep u ladies updated. WB helped me to keep my sanity!!
@purpledaisies: It is gonna be time crunching!!
Thank you ladies for your wishes!!!
Post # 11
@tiff-tiff-tiff: Congratulations on your engagement! Happy Wedding Planning. 🙂
Post # 12
I saw the thread title and then saw your avatar and was like “Oh, NO!”
So I’m glad it was such a happy update! Can’t wait to see what you plan!
Post # 13
Congratulations! You got us all with the way you started the post. So glad the post had such an amazingly happy ending! Post dress and shoe pics on here so us other waiters get to share in the fun!!!
Post # 14
Congrats! Happy planning!
Post # 15
@tiff-tiff-tiff: you totallu are!! Congrats! Sounds like you have a lot taken care of already 🙂
Post # 16
@tiff-tiff-tiff: Congratulations! and kuddos for not obsessing over a proposal when we know it’s really the marriage that matters and that’s what you’re getting :):)