Post # 1
I broke up with J yesterday the day before our 1st anniversary. I just couldn’t take the disagreements anymore or the disappointments. He is a nice guy but he just isn’t my guy. He was pretty upset but we’ve done this before. I told him we should be farther along after a year and I wanted to get married and I didn’t have anymore time to waste on this relationship. I know he wants to get married too but it should be a happy marriage with someone you really really love and that wasn’t going to work for us. At least we didn’t live together…whew! So I’ll be licking my wounds the next few months. Good luck to everyone else!
Post # 3
Best of luck to you! Hope we see you back!
Post # 4
I am so sorry. It always makes me sad when I see a post like this, but it is better that you made this decision now; rather than later.
Post # 5
good luck in your life and best wishes
Post # 6
Awww I’m sorry to hear this… wishing you all the best. Hope to see you back here soon. 🙂
Post # 7
I am very sorry to hear that. I hope you are doing ok. Best of luck to you!
Post # 8
I admire your strength and your ability to do what was best for YOU.
Post # 9
I am very sorry about your relationship but I am glad you are doing what is right for you!
Post # 10
Sorry that happened, but Take care of you FIRST, right!? Good luck to you and hope you come back when you do meet MR. RIGHT!
Post # 11
Thank you sweet sweet darling bees. I’ll be lurking around though to still congratulate you at least.
It was really about what I wanted and realizing that he couldn’t give me that. I had to accept him as he was and I couldn’t do it…hey sometimes you have to be honest with yourself. I’ve had two family members (marry the wrong guy) and lived very bitter small lives and I would rather be alone than let that happen to me.
Post # 12
best of luck to you.the way u sound i feel u made the right decision for both of u.if its not there then its just not there i applaud u for havin the courage.u’ll find that one that is evrything u want am sure.hope you come back .take care
Post # 13
I’m sorry to hear this, but I am proud of you for standing up for yourself and wanting the best for you. Good luck, I’m sure you’ll get through this a better person, and feel free to post on the non-wedding boards if you like so we can keep seeing you around! We will miss you! (((hugs)))
Post # 14
Well this is difficult, but I really commend your strength. You deserve to be happy. I know you will!
Post # 15
i am so sorry to hear this news viking. count me as another admirer of your strength and conviction. good luck to you in the future!
Post # 16
I am so sorry to hear this. I wish you the best!