(Closed) Talks about marriage when he is drinking….

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3790 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Just bring it up casually I guess.  SO and I used to bring it up after a few drinks but eventually we both felt it natural to discuss it sober.  Just take it slow, and don’t expect too much from him.  You can start generally and then refer to yourselves as a couple 🙂

Post # 4
415 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My Fiance used to do the same thing, so it’s definitely a good sign!  I think guys have an easier time accessing their own “mushy” emotions after a few drinks.  It sounds like you guys are very close and he loves you – maybe you shouldn’t worry about ice breakers and just ask what he thinks of getting married, and if he wants to, what time frame he’s thinking of.  It’s scary to propose, and he might have no idea that you’re ready!  GL

Post # 5
118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I agree with the other poster.  My SO does the samething.  He said it’s easier to open up.  Which I agree with him on that comment towards himself.  We have had some of our best talks when he’s had something to drink.  We went to a local club here in town that you have to be a member of.  He told everyone the other night we were getting married.  Which we had already had this talk before alone, but I think my mouth hit the floor when he announced it.LOL  He’s not one that expresses his feelings.  So it made me really happy to say the least.  Everyone was happy for us.  So I would say your Boyfriend or Best Friend is being honest about his feelings and he’s really thinking about popping the question. 🙂

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