- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
When DH and I were still engaged, we made our first set of “couple” friends, J (husband) and C (wife). We saw this as a big win since we were all 20ish and we didn’t really know anyone else who was engaged/married. Fast forward a few years. Our “couple” friends are now divorced– and they had a nasty, bitter divorce.
Ever since then J has been posting rude, snarky crap about C on facebook. SO JUVENILE. I just took him off my facebook because I don’t even want to deal. C is calling to find out what he is saying and telling me stuff she’s heard from other people. Ugh. I’ll admit– in high school I would have so loved to be a part of this drama. But we’re adults and this kind of crap is not worth my time or energy. C and I are still friends but I resent that she’s putting me in the middle of their failed relationship fall-out. I don’t want her to feel like I’m not supportive of her, but how do I tell her to leave me out of it without hurting her feelings?