Tell me a really dumb reason why you've become PO'd at your SO…

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
2675 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Madison, WI

I had a similar experience with an EX. We were watching an episode of Grey’s Anatomy and a guy kept using his GF as a human shield! I said something like “Well I hope you would never do that to me”‘ and he said he could not predict how he would act in that situation and that self preservation might kick in and he would save himself over me. Yeah…one of the many reasons he is my EX. I can understand no one can predict something like that but you could at least say you’d try and protect the person you supposedly love. 


Post # 5
9204 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2018

This is really silly, but FI is a momma’s boy. He usually drives over and picks me up to go to his house on Thursday evenings, now that he has his licence. I can easily walk there, but he has started to pick me up. A couple of weeks ago, I ask him if it’s ok for him to pick me up like usual, he says ‘sure no problem honey :)’. Then when he is on his way he texts me saying his Mum is driving him to my house to pick me up, that he couldn’t be bothered driving. I was FURIOUS. He could have told me and I could have walked/caught a bus, but he instead got his mum to do what he said he would do. Drives me up the wall sometimes how much he gets his mum to do for him!

Post # 6
370 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I got mad because I found out he had a vasectomy after having 3 children with his ex-wife.  I am ashamed to admit how angry I got when he told me ….especially since he had the surgery five years before meeting me and I had already said I didn’t want more children. But For some reason, having that option taken away from me triggered a big messy meltdown. I raged, I cried. Didn’t he have a crystal ball to predict *I* was coming along someday and might want a baby?   (And yes, ladies, I think I said something actually THAT stupid to him!) “Didn’t you think you’d ever fall in love with someone new? With  a woman who wanted babies with you?  How could be so insensitive, you brute?? What were you thinking?”  Oh, I was a hot mess before I realized how unfair and ridiculous I was being. Not one of my finer moments…thank God he loves me as much as he does!

Post # 7
1715 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

*Disclaimer: I was pmsing real bad*

FI and I spent the day together with our families, it was a really long day and at the end he was tired and car sick.  We had planned that I would stay the night at his house after but I didn’t have anything with me so I would need to go home with my parnets and then go back to his house.  Well as he was leaving I asked if he still wanted me to stay the night he said “I don’t care” and then walked in the house, that kind of ticked me off because he should care! lol  Then I got home and texted him, “what do you want me to do?”  no answer so I called him 3 times, still no answer; I was fuming!  I knew he was asleep, I knew he was sick, I knew none of this should be pissing me off.  Then I started crying, at that point I was like screw it, and went over and crawled into bed with my passed out FI.  He woke up of course and was like “Why the hell are you crying?” (poor guy was so confused)  I told him I was mad at him but not to worry about it because I knew I was being stupid and would be fine in a little bit. He shook his head and went to shower, then came back and showered  me in kisses because even though he had litteraly did nothing wrong he wanted to make me feel better.  I am so lucky that he puts up with my crazy ass because seriously who would put up with a woman who gets mad at her FI because he was sick and fell asleep?

Post # 8
111 posts
Blushing bee

I’ve got mad because I dreamed he cheated and just woke up pissed off. Lol

Post # 9
1343 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Sometimes I feel really bad for the outrageous things I get upset over… 


Example, one time my FH was picking something up for dinner. I don’t even remember where. But it was the wrong thing. I FREAKED out on him accusing him of never paying attention to me or not caring about what I really wanted…lol. I think I made him paranoid about going to the grocery store by himself…poor thing.. 


Another time, I was cooking dinner and all ready for him to come home. He pulls into the driveway and just sits there… for a good 10 minutes. Apparently he was listening to something on the radio that he wanted to finish. A valid reason right? I took that to mean he was dreading coming inside and didn’t want to see me. 


Also, I can’t drink tequilla because I get SUPER mad at him for the most ridiculous things. LIke his hair being parted weird. 

Oh, sometimes I’m a mess… Idk how he puts up with me! lol 

Post # 11
442 posts
Helper bee

Um…like every time I get mad at him it’s really stupid haha. He’s a saint.

Post # 12
2073 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’ve gotten mad at FI over dreams i’ve had of him being a dick lol.  Not really mad, but I give him a bit of attitude at first and then usually make him promise he’ll never do those things.

We have always said we have no secrets and sometimes on road trips, if bored, I’ll say…. Tell me a secret!  And it’s usually something random and unimportant… like, I forgot to brush my teeth before we left – lol.  But he has one secret he says he can’t tell me – something one of his best buds did when they were teenagers.  I figure it shouldn’t matter now and I want to know!  Who am I gunna tell?  but he refuses to tell me!!! It drives me CRAZY and i usually end up sulking or mad that he won’t tell me.  I’ve made him promise that he’ll tell me after we’re married lol.  It’s probably something incredibly dumb if I know this friend, like maybe he pissed himself when he was drunk, or something embarassing. 

I better find out next year tho!

Post # 13
1888 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

When we first together we were long distance dating.  When I came to visit him in LA the first time I got all pissed that he didn’t meet me in the airport and propose to me on one knee (yes we had only been dating for 4ish months).  I was exhusted and stressed, nevermind hearing the lectures from my mom about going to meet a strange man who was probably going to kill and rape me (she’s a bit of a drama queen).  I apologized, he understood and we had a great laugh about my mom’s lecture to me.  I had a blast on that trip!

Post # 14
2878 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I got super pissed at DH yesterday because I was making baked potatoes and I’d bought cheese for on top, and then when I went to make them, the cheese was gone.  DH got home from work and admitted he had eaten the cheese… I was so upset that I was nearly in tears and I forced him to go out and get more lol.  Stupid. 

Post # 15
48 posts
  • Wedding: August 2014

My FI has been complaining that i’m not selfish Because i work, go to school, and still enjoy taking care of him and our 4 year old I am too selfless and he wants me to be selfish. It makes me sooooo mad when he gets angry that im being nice. He actually pouts over it…I feel like something is backward here!! 

Post # 16
724 posts
Busy bee

I had a dream in which he kissed another woman.

I woke up and was wretchedly angry at him. Rationally, I knew it was just a silly dream, but goodness gracious it tapped into some serious fury. The feeling lingered, too, and it took the better part of the day to come out of that funk. It was the worst.

Poor guy. He felt bad that I felt bad that I was so upset over something he didn’t do.

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