Post # 1
So, earlier tonight, I read a news article about a man who was arrested because he killed his wife who was suffering from terminal cancer. She was in a lot of pain and asked him to do it. He sacrificed his freedom because he couldn’t bare to see the woman he loved in pain. He said that she would of done the same thing for him. I found it really touching how much he loved her and hoped that my FI would be willing to do the same thing for me.
Then I ask my FI if he would do the same thing for me. He immediately said NO because he wouldn’t want to go to jail. I’ve been pouting ever since. It really upset me and I told him that he should at least TELL me that he would do it. GOSH!!! I know its a dumb reason to be upset, but I can’t help myself. I want him to be willing to kill me if I’m suffering!!! lol
Tell me your stories. We all have them 🙂
Post # 3
- Wedding: May 2014 - Madison, WI
I had a similar experience with an EX. We were watching an episode of Grey’s Anatomy and a guy kept using his GF as a human shield! I said something like “Well I hope you would never do that to me”‘ and he said he could not predict how he would act in that situation and that self preservation might kick in and he would save himself over me. Yeah…one of the many reasons he is my EX. I can understand no one can predict something like that but you could at least say you’d try and protect the person you supposedly love.
Post # 4
@Ms_Purple: Exactly! He knew the answer I wanted to hear. Why not just say it, even if you don’t think you’d actually do it. Its okay to lie to me in that circumstance! BUT I would hope that if it ever really did happen, he would actually do it!!! I’m still mad at him, and as dumb as it seems, I keep asking myself if I want to be married to someone who doesn’t love me enough to kill me. I told him that and he said that he’ll kill me any way I want him to, lol.
Post # 5
This is really silly, but FI is a momma’s boy. He usually drives over and picks me up to go to his house on Thursday evenings, now that he has his licence. I can easily walk there, but he has started to pick me up. A couple of weeks ago, I ask him if it’s ok for him to pick me up like usual, he says ‘sure no problem honey :)’. Then when he is on his way he texts me saying his Mum is driving him to my house to pick me up, that he couldn’t be bothered driving. I was FURIOUS. He could have told me and I could have walked/caught a bus, but he instead got his mum to do what he said he would do. Drives me up the wall sometimes how much he gets his mum to do for him!
Post # 6
I got mad because I found out he had a vasectomy after having 3 children with his ex-wife. I am ashamed to admit how angry I got when he told me ….especially since he had the surgery five years before meeting me and I had already said I didn’t want more children. But For some reason, having that option taken away from me triggered a big messy meltdown. I raged, I cried. Didn’t he have a crystal ball to predict *I* was coming along someday and might want a baby? (And yes, ladies, I think I said something actually THAT stupid to him!) “Didn’t you think you’d ever fall in love with someone new? With a woman who wanted babies with you? How could be so insensitive, you brute?? What were you thinking?” Oh, I was a hot mess before I realized how unfair and ridiculous I was being. Not one of my finer moments…thank God he loves me as much as he does!
Post # 7
*Disclaimer: I was pmsing real bad*
FI and I spent the day together with our families, it was a really long day and at the end he was tired and car sick. We had planned that I would stay the night at his house after but I didn’t have anything with me so I would need to go home with my parnets and then go back to his house. Well as he was leaving I asked if he still wanted me to stay the night he said “I don’t care” and then walked in the house, that kind of ticked me off because he should care! lol Then I got home and texted him, “what do you want me to do?” no answer so I called him 3 times, still no answer; I was fuming! I knew he was asleep, I knew he was sick, I knew none of this should be pissing me off. Then I started crying, at that point I was like screw it, and went over and crawled into bed with my passed out FI. He woke up of course and was like “Why the hell are you crying?” (poor guy was so confused) I told him I was mad at him but not to worry about it because I knew I was being stupid and would be fine in a little bit. He shook his head and went to shower, then came back and showered me in kisses because even though he had litteraly did nothing wrong he wanted to make me feel better. I am so lucky that he puts up with my crazy ass because seriously who would put up with a woman who gets mad at her FI because he was sick and fell asleep?
Post # 8
I’ve got mad because I dreamed he cheated and just woke up pissed off. Lol
Post # 9
Sometimes I feel really bad for the outrageous things I get upset over…
Example, one time my FH was picking something up for dinner. I don’t even remember where. But it was the wrong thing. I FREAKED out on him accusing him of never paying attention to me or not caring about what I really wanted…lol. I think I made him paranoid about going to the grocery store by himself…poor thing..
Another time, I was cooking dinner and all ready for him to come home. He pulls into the driveway and just sits there… for a good 10 minutes. Apparently he was listening to something on the radio that he wanted to finish. A valid reason right? I took that to mean he was dreading coming inside and didn’t want to see me.
Also, I can’t drink tequilla because I get SUPER mad at him for the most ridiculous things. LIke his hair being parted weird.
Oh, sometimes I’m a mess… Idk how he puts up with me! lol
Post # 10
Ooooh, I’m so glad I’m not the only one! The dream one cracked me up because FI did the same thing to me a few months ago. He woke up and told me that he was mad at me for cheating on him in his dream. I laughed and tried to snuggle up next to him and he jerked away and said “Get away from me, cheater!!!” It was cute and made me laugh.
Post # 11
Um…like every time I get mad at him it’s really stupid haha. He’s a saint.
Post # 12
I’ve gotten mad at FI over dreams i’ve had of him being a dick lol. Not really mad, but I give him a bit of attitude at first and then usually make him promise he’ll never do those things.
We have always said we have no secrets and sometimes on road trips, if bored, I’ll say…. Tell me a secret! And it’s usually something random and unimportant… like, I forgot to brush my teeth before we left – lol. But he has one secret he says he can’t tell me – something one of his best buds did when they were teenagers. I figure it shouldn’t matter now and I want to know! Who am I gunna tell? but he refuses to tell me!!! It drives me CRAZY and i usually end up sulking or mad that he won’t tell me. I’ve made him promise that he’ll tell me after we’re married lol. It’s probably something incredibly dumb if I know this friend, like maybe he pissed himself when he was drunk, or something embarassing.
I better find out next year tho!
Post # 13
When we first together we were long distance dating. When I came to visit him in LA the first time I got all pissed that he didn’t meet me in the airport and propose to me on one knee (yes we had only been dating for 4ish months). I was exhusted and stressed, nevermind hearing the lectures from my mom about going to meet a strange man who was probably going to kill and rape me (she’s a bit of a drama queen). I apologized, he understood and we had a great laugh about my mom’s lecture to me. I had a blast on that trip!
Post # 14
I got super pissed at DH yesterday because I was making baked potatoes and I’d bought cheese for on top, and then when I went to make them, the cheese was gone. DH got home from work and admitted he had eaten the cheese… I was so upset that I was nearly in tears and I forced him to go out and get more lol. Stupid.
Post # 15
My FI has been complaining that i’m not selfish enough..wtf? Because i work, go to school, and still enjoy taking care of him and our 4 year old I am too selfless and he wants me to be selfish. It makes me sooooo mad when he gets angry that im being nice. He actually pouts over it…I feel like something is backward here!!
Post # 16
I had a dream in which he kissed another woman.
I woke up and was wretchedly angry at him. Rationally, I knew it was just a silly dream, but goodness gracious it tapped into some serious fury. The feeling lingered, too, and it took the better part of the day to come out of that funk. It was the worst.
Poor guy. He felt bad that I felt bad that I was so upset over something he didn’t do.