(Closed) tell me, Am I over- reacting?

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
578 posts
Busy bee

ohhhh man, i would flip. I don’t know why you had to move in with them, but there needs to be boundaries. I recommend making some ground rules to try to avoid everyone stepping on eachothers toes.

and try to get the heck out asap…. I wouldn’t be able to live that way for long

Post # 4
Member
948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Not overreacting. Having lived with roommates for the past 10 years of my life I can say this is ridiculous. I would be soooo annoyed. 

Post # 5
Member
688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

wow that is pretty rude…you didn’t over react at all.

Post # 7
Member
14311 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

That’s insane.  1. If they were using YOUR pans, they should have been careful enough not to scratch it. 2.  They dont throw away something that doesnt belong to them!!  Now, with that said, you also should probably keep your items out of commnuity use and save it for when you move out of their house.

Post # 8
Member
2067 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

That biotech owes you a pan!!!!

 

Haha I typed biotch and it changed it to biotech. I liked it so it’s staying! 

Post # 9
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

That’s rude. Even if she scratched it, she should have told you and apologized before getting rid of it. I agree with the above poster, keep your stuff hidden from now on! 

Post # 10
Member
1868 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Seriously, who throws a pan away just because it has a scratch on it?

You have every right to be upset, I would’ve been livid. THEY’RE NOT HERS TO TOUCH. 

Post # 11
Member
2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

goddamn biotech!!   😀

 

 

No seriously, you are not overracting. Thats nuts.

Post # 12
Member
8426 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Oh my you totally have a right to be down right pissed!! I think I might have dug the pan out of the trash and chased her around the house with it( oops did I say that) I would have prob said some not so nice things…..

Post # 15
Member
688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

If I were in your situation I would just put my detergent, dryer sheets anything personal away and then they wouldn’t have a choice but to go out and get there own stuff. And as far as wedding presents go they would all be sitting in a storage unit waiting for my own home.

Post # 16
Member
872 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You are not over reacting! In fact I think you are under reacting. Which I understand you are being diplomatic and that is fine, I don’t think I could hold my cool like you’ve done. 

I would have been like, “Hey blah, where is my small pan? I put it right here.” And if it was anything like “Oh I threw it away because derp-di-derp.” I would have just stared at her with a look of KILL burning in my eyes then I would have raised my voice and said, “And what gives you the right to throw away MY wedding gift away? Hm? I would NEVER disrespect you in such away! Now get it out of the trash or buy me a new pan.” I would have been livid. 

How did you keep yourself so calm? I wish I could buy you a small pan to make up for this disrespect! I am so, so sorry! It is just a pan and you can move on from this and it seems like you’re already doing a great job of it. 

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