(Closed) Tell me, are these “real” friends?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Then stop talking to them.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

They don’t sound like people I would want to call friends. I can be completely myself with my friends. I never worry about how I look or how I phrase things with them. I can tell them anything. They are the people who would rush over to hold my hand in the hospital, who I can cry my eyes out with, who always have my back. You want friends who love you for you. Friends who completely accept you and all your foibles. No one is perfect but a true friend loves you anyway and never mocks you.

I would have been uncomfortable in your shoes and I think you might want to “unfriend” them if this is a regular thing.

Sorry you had that experience. *HUGS*  Praying you find terrific friends!

Post # 8
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3004 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Either you can tell them how you feel, ignore that this ever happened and keep hanging out with them, or end the friendship with no final words. The first option is probably your best. It’s tougher, but will be the best if you would like to remain friends with them at all. The last option is the easiest, most passive aggressive one available. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

if you have to ask, you know your answer. (ps you can post on the support board (or whatever it’s called!) to get this deleted)

Post # 10
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6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

My friends and I tend to joke around, but we do it in front of each other. I’d be upset if I found out they did it behind my back.

Post # 11
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Busy bee

@catonka:all of my female best friends have stabbed me in the back. sad but true. if you get a bad feeling, cut them out of your life

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

you are the third wheel in the friendship it sounds like to me. I have laughed at things my friends do/ have done but they are aware of it. The fact these two are attempting to laugh at you behind your back (while in your face) shows they dont care or respect you. Unless you want to feel like they are always talking about you then get rid of them.

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