Post # 1
what is your biggest fear that could happen before or on your wedding day??
here is mine:
I am so friggin scared to chip or lose a tooth before the wedding and i cant afford to go to the dentist because i have no dental insurance!!!! can you imagine? what a nice wedding picture of me missing a tooth!
now tell me yours!
Post # 3
since we are flying in from far away (as are 80% of people coming to the wedding), that there will be some freak august storm – a foiled terrorist attack that has planes being rerouted – or some other travel disaster! i want everyone to safely get to the wedding!!!
Post # 4
Eek, the tooth one is scary!
I’m really afraid that I’ll stress and put on weight. My body really reacts to stress in that I can change nothing that I’m eating, and put on about 5 pounds, which is a lot on my 5′ frame! I’d hate to not fit into the dress because of that.
I’m also really afraid that family will throw a fit/create drama about something, or that someone will do something stupid/get hurt in the city. A lot of my family is very afraid of being in the city, and our the neighborhood our venue is in is a warehouse district. Somehow it’s the people that are terrified that have the bad experiences – I think because it’s obvious they’re scared and unsure. I’m worried that they’ll park really far away thinking it’s a good spot, or something, when they don’t have to because there’s lots of free parking close.
Post # 5
I know it never would happen, but I do have a fear that he won’t show. I would be devastated.
Post # 6
I fear that people wont have fun on our wedding day. WE are doing destination wedding to Jamaica. Me and Fh dont dance, and our guest list is only 30 with mostly family and a few friends, none of which dance. I am so scared that no one will have fun.
Post # 7
Oh.. now I’m freaked out about the tooth thing too!
But my biggest fear is that I won’t lose any weight. I’ve been trying and I am freaking out that (the amount I want to lose) just will not come off by then.
Post # 8
Bad hair ~ too short bangs
Post # 9
haha! sorry about the tooth thing ladies!!! haha, now watch me and jonx myself like usual!!!!….
yeah im also afraid that people wont have fun or they will have something to criticize about behind my back… but the tooth thing is my number one since i know i have a few cavaties that need to be fixed and i cant afford to do so! UGH!
Post # 10
I am afraid that I will be a bridezilla on the week of the wedding. Sometimes I get bitchy when I have a lot of people in my space and there will be a lot of people staying with us before the wedding. AHHHHH I Get stressed just thinking about it!
Post # 11
LOL at the tooth! Just be VERY careful and don’t eat any Jolly Ranchers! 😉
Mine would be feeling like I don’t look pretty in any of the photos when I see them afterward.
Post # 12
So this is going to sound a little intense, but I am afaid of a guest or family member getting in an accident before or after the wedding! We have a lot of people driving a long distence for our rural wedding and I really hope everyone makes it there and back safe!
Another smaller (sweeter) fear is that my mom and dad will make me bawl the whole time they are escorting me down the aisle. I have a feeling we will have a big love fest and end up sobbing in front of our guests 🙂
Post # 13
For some reason I have a lot of fears as of late (if you had asked me a month ago I’d have had like two!).
That my bio dad (who I’ve completely severed ties with) will show up (this is fear #1).
That I’ll have a HUGE pimple.
That all I’ll do is cry through the whole day thus making my pics look TERRIBLE.
That it’ll rain (outside ceremony and NO back up location!).
That we’ll have a lot of no shows.
That I’ll be so stressed out the whole day that I won’t enjoy it.
Post # 14
i’m a worry-wort. Here are my main fears:
• I’ll get sick the morning of (like stomach flu, seasonal flu, sinus cold )
• Logistics (vendors/bridal party/guests won’t be somewhere where & when they need to be.
• The music (band and dj) will be too loud for our venue.
• Guests won’t have fun, dance, mingle.
theres more where those came from but i’ll stop there and spare you all
Post # 15
@ sandiegoali! I completely forgot about the rain and the pimple!!!! those could ruin my day as well!!!
@rosiebear! they will be just fine, dont think about that! 🙂
Post # 16
@futuremrsbaird! you are def right! i know already im going to hate our wedding picture because of my fat arms!!! UGH!!
wow how many fears! i thought i had just one, but now ladies you are giving me more!!!! lol