telling SO's family about engagement before telling mine

posted 2 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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6614 posts
Bee Keeper

Are officially engaged or just pre-engaged and planning the wedding already? If it’s the latter, you could delay telling your mom with the excuse that you wanted to save the surprise.

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Valparaiso, IN

People plan weddings in 6 month time frames all the time. Not aaying it’s easy, but it’s doable.

when DH and I got engaged, I told my family and he told his. We both called people right after it happened. And then, as another surprise, we headed over to his parent’s house where both of our families were for an engagement party.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 3 months ago by  MrsWoods47.
Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

I’m currently planning a 200 person, formal wedding in 9 months. My girlfriend did it in 7 months. 

Its very possible and not difficult at all. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

We had a small, but formal/traditional wedding and had seven months to plan (42 guests). We were married in a historic chapel and had our reception in private room at an upscale restaurant. So, yes doable – and we still had highly qualified and reputable vendors. We were engaged in November, DH told his parents at Thanksgiving and I told mine after the holidays. We had already planned and booked most things by the time we broke the news to them. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Valparaiso, IN

flummoxed:  so glad we could help!

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