Telling your boss that you are pregnant

posted 3 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

I stepped into my boss’ office one afternoon and told her I was pregnant but not yet ready to tell the rest of the staff.  She understood and made some accommodations for me since I was experiencing a lot of morning sickness which was affecting my job performance.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Commenting to follow. I work in a plant as an engineer and there’s only 2 women, me and the other lady and she’s been finished having children some 20 years ago before she started working in my dept. I’m curious to know how and when to do this.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I was SO nervous to tell my boss. I dont know why, but it was definitely the biggest worry I had as far as telling people. She’s not very “kid-friendly” and has made comments before about how she would never want kids and blah blah.  So I guess I just thought that meant she hated them and wouldn’t be happy for me.  I think I told her when I was around 13 weeks.  I could’ve probably waited even longer, but it was at the point where I just wanted to get it over with. It went fine, she was really happy for me and wanted me to know I could count on her if I needed anything.  I felt really stupid afterward for being so nervous and turning it into this big thing…

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Do you only get 6-12 weeks maternity leave??

We get 6- 12 months in the UK.

To answer your question though, I haven’t had kids but would just make an appointment with my direct manager and spit it out- probably not until 12 weeks though but I work in a college so don’t need to worry about radiation!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

In Canada you get up to a full year off so a lot of women I know (and I’m in HR so I deal with this frequently) can be pretty nervous knowing that they will be giving up their position for a year and telling the company that they will be needing to hire a temp. However, it’s always just easier to tell them straight up and as early as is comfortable to you.

In your case since you will need to tell your boss pretty early on, I would just tell him/her and say you’re not ready to tell everyone else yet.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Mine’s a funny story actually. I stayed home from work for three days in a row, and my boss said I had to have a doctor’s note when I came back. (Mind you, this was 14 years ago) So, huffily, I went to the doctor, just knowing that he was going to tell me I had a touch of the flu and to go to bed and sleep it off. Instead, they told me I was pregnant.

After accusing the doctor of lying, and making him run the test twice, I had him write me a note, suggesting that I be allowed to come in late everyday due to my pregnancy. That’s the note I handed to my boss. Who blinked, several times, and then congratulated me, but told me I had to be in on time anyway. I was about 8 weeks then.

The second time, I just told my new boss I was pregnant. Nothing dramatic there. I was only a few weeks along. 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I told my boss via the phone. I was working from home at the time and told her due to having to take time off for doct apts.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Ihavenottold:  It’s not even legally required to be paid. It’s messed up. I’m dreading it.

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Wow, I didn’t realise how fortunate we are here

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I am 13+ weeks and still have not told work yet. I checked our employee handbook because I wanted to be informed about what my company offers before telling them, but then I was told that the handbook is currently being re-written and a new version will be out in about a week. I am certainly not going to tell them while the “rules” are “up in the air for discussion” so I will be telling them once I have the newest copy!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

There was nothing fancy about it when I told my boss. I told her just after our 12 week ultrasound.
In Iceland, mothers get 3 months on 80% pay. Fathers get the same and then we get another 3 months that we can split between us.

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